I’m untidy by nature, always have been, always will be.
And yet I’m the best organiser in my family (better than Himself too), despite (some of) them being neat freaks and minimalists. So, does that challenge the saying?
I’d posit that my desk is untidy because I use it to do lots of stuff. Himself would say that’s just an excuse. But his desk is my old dining table with a surface that’s twice as large as my desk, and he works outside of the home, while my desk is my full-time work and home office. It’s so tight for space that if I want to wrap a gift, I have to use my old dining table Himself’s desk…
At least once a year, I have a major clear out – but I hate doing it.
The day job stuff is annoying, if easy to cull, as it’s simply a matter of age. But as the clients are in the financial services industry, everything has to be shredded, which is a PITA and time consuming.
My coaching client files are kept (for ever) in a separate secure cabinet, but the related potentially useful material takes up space. It tends to reside in a big pile on one end of my desk until I make time to read and review its usefulness, before making the time to scan and store it online (usually when it starts toppling over).
I have shed loads of research material relating to my writing. Much of it is connected with my co-written novel, as it’s a historical piece. As a reader I cannot abide inaccuracies, so clearly I researched the death out of everything! My co-writer and I are planning to write a series, so the information does need to be kept until we finish, as my memory isn’t good enough to rely on for that long. I did originally just keep pages of links, but many of them were removed or moved, so I had to start again. I could scan and keep it, but there’s a lot of it… so, for the moment, it’s more time efficient to keep it in folders.
Don’t get me wrong, I would love to have a tidy and organised desk. Indeed, when I first started to work from home, I had a smaller desk but was able to swing my chair around to spread out on my old dining table. Everything was brutally organised into folders and got put away on a shelving unit when done with. Now I’m sharing the same size home (and facilities) with Himself, so it’s a squeeze… but it wouldn’t be fair not to let him have his share – even if, like the chest of drawers I handed over, it only stores clothing he has never worn in the years we’ve lived together 😉
Are you tidy – or untidy – of desk and mind? Or do you have a split personality (like me)?
© Debra Carey, 2023
When I worked in an office my desk was always a mess. I don’t have a real workspace St home so everything is tidy because I keep it portable.
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I was just thinking about this very topic minutes ago as I looked at the mess on my desk, and around the home office, and wondered if I’d feel less frazzled if I was tidier. No answer, but I get what you’re saying. Despite the clutter in this room I seem to be productive [enough]. Still would like an Insta perfect room… but seem incapable of doing that.
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A lack of space is really tough, especially when you’re used to spreading out and you have three different jobs! Kudos to you for making that work. I can’t work until everything is tidy and organized. Part of it is that I get very cross–irrationally cross!– when I can’t find something, plus I hate the inefficiency of time lost hunting for something. I have all kinds of folders for research and different projects, like you, because some books take years and I can’t remember all the research.
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I’ve read that a messy desk is a sign of genius, in articles that include a picture of Albert Einstein’s desk as anecdotal confirmation. I have taken great comfort from those articles
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I call it organized chaos. I know where things are and can usually get them right away. But I wouldn’t say it’s really “neat.”
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My husband and I (both retired) have our own offices. I really wish I could say that because of the abundance of space, my desk is neat and tidy, but I’d be lying. I tend to cover flat surfaces with papers. At first, it’s to keep them front and center so I’ll remember to do with them whatever I need to remember to do. Unfortunately, they are soon covered up by other papers that need to be dealt with. Every week or so I shuffle through the papers to make sure I haven’t forgotten something really important. Most are filed, some begin the cycle of hide and seek again. (Hopped over here from Donna’s blog and signed up to follow.)
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It’s hard to be neat and still have everything you want to use handy when you’re ready for it. It’s especially hard when you have many things going at once. And some things take time to mature in your mind.
When I was in high school and college, I had one small desk and it seemed to be quite enough. When I was a young wife, I filed everything in paper files. That was easy, even with toddlers around. Now I have paper files and computer files and stacks of things I’m still working on. It seems that my life keeps getting more and more complicated.
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I’m somewhere in the middle, but my husband’s desk is a disaster area. He will not let me near it to clean, so I mostly look the other way.
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Tater, that’s how I operated when I first worked from home. Having a room of my own (well, a chunk of a room of my own) is great but I so picked the wrong desk!
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Ally, every now and again I have a blitz and I am sorely in need of another one. It was one of the tasks on my summer off from blogging to do list, but that didn’t go so well… Still, as you say, productive enough is like good enough, so I guess we keep on keeping on. An Insta perfect office would be the dogs, but I suspect I’m a long way from achieving it! One day, when I’m retired… maybe.
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Yup, I get the irrationally cross feeling. When it gets too bad, I’ll down tools as I simply cannot continue until it’s sorted. I do try to have places for stuff so that I can always put them back in the right place. I’m in that place where that isn’t happening, so I know there’s going to be a mega melt down if I don’t down tools and get it sorted. Till then, I’m hanging on in there.
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Yeah, I’ve tried to cling to that one too Michael, but I’m starting to catch Himself’s propensity for minimalism – stuff and clutter is getting to me. I may have been very grumpty with him about it… he just laughed, as indeed he should! 😀
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My desk is usually in that condition Janet, but I’ve slipped – and slipped badly. That down tools and tidy moment is coming…
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Janis, yay! Lovely to see you here and I look forward to visiting and getting to know you more.
Oh I used to work like that in my office, even when I had a massive desk. I think that tiny desk but with a bigger space to spread out until it was time to pack it away at the end of the work session was the best solution. One day…
Can I just say that I envy the fact that you and your husband have your own offices. Himself uses the dining table in our main room, but has taken over the shelving I had earmarked for my files and folder with his camera gear. I try not to be grumpy about sharing, but in truth, I am! 😉
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Yeah, it does, doesn’t it Nicki? I still think my old working set-up worked best for me, but I need to focus and change my mindset about that, and work something else out ‘cos I’m not going to be having it again. But yes, adding the paperwork for the sale of my mother’s property (and all her old UK files) has caused my office space to reach crisis point.
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Oh dear Donna, that must be hard. I suspect that’s how Himself feels when he enters my office to get his camera kit from the shelves and storage at the far end of my office. It must kill him to go past my messy desk.
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I tend to be tidy, though I can let papers pile up for the better part of a month before I file them into wherever they need to be filed. But even my piles are tidy, or so I want to believe anyway. My office doubles as the guest bedroom, and I actually like that because there’s an unspoken pressure to keep it looking presentable. – Marty
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I tend to be tidy. My husband, on the other hand, not so much. It’s an area in which we’ve had to comprise. You can always tell which side of the dresser is his!
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Marty, I think you’re onto a winner there. If this was a guest room I’d feel a great deal more pressure to keep it tidy. I’m actually relieved that it’s not big enough to hold more than a single bed, so I only have my own pressure to deal with!
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Himself likes minimalism. That said, he can be horrible untidy in his own way. But I keep my thoughts to myself as it would be far too easy for him to turn the spotlight back on me (and more than just my desk!)
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Yes, I am obsessively tidy, especially electronically. A substitute for real work?
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Ha ha! Rosemary, I know that if I’m actively choosing to tidy my desk before it drives me mad, then I’m in avoidance mode 😀
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