I’ve had cataracts for a while now and have been waiting for the right time to have surgery. Initially I understood that the right time meant cataracts needed to be at a certain level of ripeness before surgery was the right choice; subsequently, I’ve realised that’s not the whole truth.
Despite my early decades requiring little to no intervention medically speaking, the increasing decades have caught up with me and there are a few health matters on the list. As any hospital stay results in a period of disruption – both personally and professionally – I aim to balance them out by prioritising.
Of course life is such that no-one is entirely in control (unless paying for private health care) so while I was able to ignore the cataract for a while, it jumped rapidly up the list late last year. And, remarkably, once they schedule one, the criteria for ripeness becomes less critical, and you get fast-tracked. So I’m now scheduled for two separate eye ops which means that the next few weeks/months will – potentially – be disrupted by their preparation and recovery.
Initially I was thrilled at the prospect that, while removing the cataract, they would also alter my sight and give me (all things being equal) perfect sight, meaning I wouldn’t need to wear anything other than reading glasses. Having been short-sighted since before my tenth birthday, this was a significantly exciting prospect.
But, during the pre-op discussion, it was pointed out to me that those of us who are short-sighted have something they referred to as a “special power” because we can see stuff up close really clearly. I had no idea that not everybody could do this, so when the question was asked if I wanted to retain this, I was completely thrown.
Initially I decided I wanted to keep that special power, so went for a half-way house measure, rather than going for the best it can be sight option. But as the weeks and days have ticked down, I’ve wondered if I was being too hasty.
So I asked Himself to put his rational brain to it, and he pointed out quite how often I comment on issues with my contact lenses. He also asked the critical question – how often that “special power” was truly useful. As I could only come up with two scenarios and, in truth, it wasn’t hard to adopt work-arounds, I’ve changed my mind and am going to ask for the best possible option instead.
In full disclosure, I won’t get a cool eye patch like the photo in the header, but – seriously – how could I resist? 😉
Have you been faced with a similar question? How would you/did you decide? If you’re short-sighted, were you aware of this “special power”?
© Debra Carey, 2024
I’m at the bifocal stage. I have no super powers. Hope all goes well with the surgeries
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I have never been faced with this so I don’t know what I’d do. I am near sighted though which means I don’t need reading glasses yet though I need glasses for distance
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My husband went with the 20/20 at distance solution, but wears his glasses all the time because of his stigmatism anyway. I am VERY near sighted and went with the “special power”. I can see well to reading distance now, so don’t need glasses for reading, and it’s true that I can still see things very close, like directions on bottles and things in my eye or on my face. There’s no perfect solution, but either of these scenarios is good. I can also function a bit without my glasses because I can see at a distance marginally better than before, so that’s also good. Good luck!
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As a long time contact lens wearer, I’m aware there an option for bifocal contact lenses, which is actually that you wear lenses of different strength and your brain (and eyes) eventually adjust after some training. That sounded too much like hard work for me, so I grabbed reading glasses which are a cheap option as my sight is – was – the same in both eyes, and hopefully will be again.
The surgery went well, except for one scary bit which I hadn’t anticipated – that I could see the scalpel with clarity and great detail because of the aforementioned superpower. I cannot deny that freaked me out a bit!
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Wearing glasses for reading after years of wearing contact lenses was an adjustment, but I guess it’s just adjustments of all sorts as the years go by 🙂
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Ah, you’ve experienced both options within your marriage Jane. I stuck with the 20/20 solution for distance and am happy to have done so, as I’ve been able to just pop a contact lens in my left eye and see beautifully, which has made the recovery a lot easier. There’s still the other restrictions to live with, but driving hasn’t been one of them after the first few days which is great. Keeping fingers crossed for the other eye to go as well (and for me not to be as freaked out at the sight of the scalpel approaching my eye!)
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Your journey with cataracts and the decision-making process regarding surgery is quite compelling. It’s interesting how what starts as a medical necessity can lead to a philosophical debate on the value of our natural “special powers” versus the allure of perfect vision. The balance between practicality and the unique traits we’ve adapted to over a lifetime is a personal one and it seems you’ve given it thorough thought. It’s a reminder of the nuanced choices we face with medical advancements. I appreciate your candidness in sharing this experience, and it definitely sparks reflection on what I would choose in your shoes. Wishing you clarity, both in vision and in decision!
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My wife uses contacts and readers to avoid the bifocals as well.
Glad the surgery went well.
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I am nearsighted and opted to stay the same after my cataract surgery (perfect vision was not an option for me due to a retina thingy I had no idea I had). I have always considered myself lucky to be nearsighted rather than farsighted. I can see small type, read without glasses and seldom wear glasses at all around the house. I wear glasses when I’m out and about but that’s okay with me.
The very best thing about cataract surgery are the colors you will see afterwards. I had no idea how grayed out my world had become over the years. It really is amazing.
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My eye doctor told me almost everyone needs cataract surgery at some point. I thought I was fine, but then last year she told me I’d reached that point. So I signed up for one eye and then a month or two later, the other. Everything worked out fine. (These doctors take care of so many cataracts that they’re extremely skilled.) I can’t help but think, though, that we’re all awfully spoiled in comparison to our grandparents and to people in less prosperous countries.
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My old optometrist was always telling me that I was the perfect candidate for laser surgery to correct my severe nearsightedness (which, like you, showed up at age 10). But, like you, I would have lost my amazing ability to read lying down in bed (Kindle/ book/ phone inches from my face without glasses). And you should see me thread a needle! Both my brother and sister opted for the surgery. Both wound up with dry eyes and a few other issues, but neither regrets it. I was fine wearing contacts, but with reading glasses on the horizon, I’m not sure it’s worth it to lose my super close vision, get the surgery, and still have to wear glasses for reading. Probably I’ll opt for progressive lenses.
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Thank you Shayan. I’m glad you’ve found my musings to be valuable.
I am delighted to say that my decision has gone well and the outcome is one I am most happy with.
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Yes, I’ve always found them to be an excellent combination, although I wasn’t aware that I complained about contact lens issues as I apparently do! 😉
And thank you. I’m keeping everything crossed that the next one does too.
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Yes, I noticed within a couple of days quite how striking the difference was. I had to tone down the brightness on my computer screen too as it was positively uncomfortable. I hadn’t realised quite how dark my life had become.
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Nicki, we are decidedly spoiled and fortunate. It was clear from our experience at this particular hospital that there’s a lot cataract surgery carried out. It was almost like a conveyor belt – it the best of ways. My one critique is that the “treatment bed” is not at all comfortable nor easy to move on & off which is pretty key when you’re blind as a bat because they’ve taken away your glasses! It’ll – hopefully – be better the next time as I’ll have one good eye 🙂
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I’ve needed reading glasses for a while now so I’m pretty happy with wearing them, especially as glasses have become quite the fashion accessory! One of the things I really liked about moving from glasses to contacts was the all round vision (no blind spots round the side of the glasses) and the fact that I could go from hot to cold temperatures and they wouldn’t steam up. I hated being rendered completely blind as my lenses steamed up each time I walked into a pub in the colder months.
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I think I don’t go to enough pubs and it’s much warmer here! But I do get the steam issue, especially when I’m wearing a mask. For now, I could still wear contacts and readers, then take contacts out at night. But my siblings love being able to see immediately, at night, without glasses. It’s a much better option for the zombie apocalypse.
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I’ll be honest, I don’t frequent pubs as often as I once did – Himself isn’t a fan of them, but yes masks and glasses are a nightmare. Being able to see clearly when I wake up has been interesting. I’m still lopsided, but it is remarkable how much even that one eye improves things.
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Yes, Debs. I’d forgotten that first day or two when the old glasses don’t work anymore.
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Do you close the bad eye in order to see more clearly?
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This is interesting to me. I’m nearsighted and have worn glasses since I was 5 y.o. I didn’t know *exactly* that I have that “special power” but my mother was farsighted and always asking me to read fine print. I mean like from the time I could discern letters and I’d tell her them while she’d parse the words. I thought she was just old, but maybe she couldn’t see the fine print? As for your situation, no useful advice. You do you.
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Fortunately I’ll be better prepared for the second eye!
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No, most of the time I’ve not needed to do that. I do shut them one at a time, just to check how the sight compares. It’s only really first thing in the morning that things are different, but my eyes quickly adjust to the good eye being predominant until I pop the contact lens in the bad eye.
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I suspect you do have the special power too then Ally. Isn’t it interesting how we never really know the full story with things like this until we go to make changes? I went for the best possible option in the end, and am glad I did, because I’ve been able to drive without having to wait for an eye test and new contacts/glasses – I just had to pass the driving authority test of being able to read a number plate at the set distance.
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Utterly fascinating. I think my sister has this so-called power too because she’s (a) the only one in the family who is nearsighted, and (b) she’s always the one we called upon to read the tiny print. Life is balancing, however, because she has serious back and neck issues, so I guess that power isn’t such a big deal. Good luck with the procedures, Debs! – Marty
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Marty, I’d never considered it a special power in any way before, so in the end I decided to go for the best possible sight option. The op itself went fine, even though I didn’t like being able to see the scalpel with quite so much clarity and detail as it approached my eye, but the recovery has been fine and I’m just waiting for my review to see how well it has all gone and to be referred for the other eye. I believe I can see as well with the “new” eye as with the old eye + contact lens, so I think the aim has been achieved, but I have to wait for the professional to confirm.
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I have my own weird power: I’m shortsighted in one eye and farsighted in the other. Therefore, my eyes balance each other out, and I do not need glasses…as long as I keep them both open!
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Now that is a proper power Mark! You’ve got your very own form of bifocals. Neat! 🙂 Did they tell you how unusual that is?
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They did, lol. And I also own a pair of bifocals just in case, but I never, ever wear them. I’m not opposed to glasses…I just genuinely do not need them!
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