Forget the spy in the sky…

The story goes that when the Russians first launched Sputnik into orbit, there was a genuine fear that it was being used to listen in to the conversations – of not just the US government – but the everyday man in the street.

To give some context, the first Sputnik was launched in the year I was born, and now over 6 decades later, we’ve become used to there being a “spy” in our electronic devices.

Whether you use a desktop, laptop, tablet or phone, the stuff you look up, the stuff you write about in your emails, the blog posts you read and comment on… it’s all being monitored and filed away.

Ally recently talked about her frugal adaptation that resulted in her having a cost-free standing desk. I read the post, I clicked on the images of said frugal adaptation, and I commented about a friend’s purchase of a purpose-designed standing desk.

In the days that followed, my Meta feeds were being inundated with ads for standing desks…

For clarity, I have not looked up desks of any sort, nor mentioned them in my emails or messaging apps.

The first time I realised this was a reality which I couldn’t ignore was after an email exchange about a mutual friend who was mulling over whether to have an operation on a non-malignant growth in her brain. I think we can agree that’s not your everyday topic so, when I started to see advertisements for neurosurgery, I did a lot more than raise my eyebrows.

Naturally, I went down a rabbit hole of thinking, but it came down to deciding whether I wanted the convenience of these tools we now depend upon, or to put myself into purdah, or don a tinfoil hat? As I did, indeed, want that convenience, I moved my focus onto what I wrote about, what I read and what I looked up. And I decided that I could live with what could be gleaned from those activities as, I’m not in the habit of pretending to be anything other than who and what I am.

And yet I don’t have an Alexa – not because of all those stories of it listening in to conversations – but ‘cos that particular skillset is already covered by other methodologies (even if one of them is an old fashioned list! 😀 ). Lists work for me, so until we’re living in a Jetsons world where everything is computerised or robotic, I’ll stick with those old style methodologies for now.

But… if the day comes when we progress beyond the robot vacuum cleaner to one which cleans bathrooms, I may be quick to sign up 😉

Which of your current devices would you hate to lose (even if it is spying on you)? And what new device might you welcome?

© Debra Carey, 2024

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  1. I am looking at stuff on my phone and tablet a lot, but I miss the days before cell phones had us connected at all times. I would have FOMO if I stopped using them, but I wouldn’t be sad if all cell phones went away

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  2. It’s a really tricky one isn’t it Tater? I feel the same way. We did all manage to live and arrange life perfectly well before we had them, but they’re just so useful. I hung on to my flip phone (all it did was phone & text) for absolutely ages, and the only thing which made me crack and go smartphone was the ability to have a map in my pocket, as I have the absolutely worst sense of direction.

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  3. It is unnerving, isn’t it. I only have 2 devices, my laptop and my phone, which I really use as a small iPad as opposed to a phone. The phone is SO convenient, almost too convenient. I’d be better off just using my laptop when I REALLY needed to.

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  4. It certainly can be Jane. Having done my “health check” right after the neurosurgery event some years ago, I’d put it to one side, but then I’d not seen anything where the tentacles reached quite so widely as with this standing desk thing.

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  5. I use my phone a lot, but I don’t think I would miss it all that much. About six months ago, I stopped taking it into the bedroom at night unless I need it for the alarm. I sleep much better. I should probably just buy an alarm clock.

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  6. I love my phone. I especially love that I can track my son’s location. Big Brother has nothing on Big Mother. Now, my son does not like this, but I’ve made it clear that he’s stuck with it until he can pay for his own cell phone plan. As for being spied on, well, I don’t love it, but I do a ton of research and so Big Brother is stuck with tremendous misdirection when it comes to everything from the Los Angeles coroner to John Dee to the easiest way to depressurize an aircraft.

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  7. Writing a novel, you do a lot of crazy research. Authors sometimes worry that it will look bad in the record of whomever is spying on us. Somehow, my research on coups in the Philippines and miscarriages didn’t lead to any crazy ads being sent my way. But just try to google some kind of health concern, and you’ll get all kinds of electronic suggestions on how to solve your problem. Why anyone would send me ads for erectile dysfunction, though, I have no idea.

    Do I worry about any of this? Not really. I should be more careful, though, about things like my financial information. It was so much easier to keep safe when all I had was a checkbook.

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  8. This is hilarious because I’ve been thinking about doing the standing desk ever since reading Ally’s post!

    Our robot vacuum only gets stuck under furniture, so I am hopeful that future robot vacuums will improve.

    I’d be willing to give up my smartphone. I still want to get a standing desk….

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  9. Yeah, I used to use an alarm clock, back when I had a simple flip phone that was just a phone. Sadly it broke – not because I threw it at anything – and it now feels wasteful to buy another one, ‘cos I’ve got the smartphone. But, yeah, maybe it would be a good idea.

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  10. Ha ha! Too right Autumn 🙂 The stuff us writers look up has to either worry Big Brother to hell, or confuse the wotsits out of them. My daughter grew up before we had the tracking option, but I can see how useful it would be. She used to carry my cell phone in the days when I had a landline, which her friends’ parents thought was shocking. But she never misused it, she could always get hold of me (and vice versa), and those parents were constantly ringing me to ask if I’d seen their kids.

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  11. Gosh Nicki, it’s almost like the only reason to track us is for the purposes of selling stuff to us! Who’d have thought, eh.

    I must admit to being a tad rash in the past and not thinking about the potential concerns over online banking. Now have a VPN on all my (and Himself’s) devices. I still have a chequebook somewhere… 😉

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  12. Kari, thank you for my morning guffaw! 😀

    I suspected that a robot vacuum would be no good for us for the same reason, but I’m holding out for that robot which cleans shower, baths and toilets before I get my bank card out.

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  13. LOL on the parents looking for their kids. The phone can be an excellent tool, especially for parents convinced catastrophe lurks around every corner. With my son, I worry less about social media usage than gaming–and the white supremacist community that lurks within the gaming community.

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  14. Honestly, if I could, I’d give it all away and go back in time to 1993 if I could. That was such a happy medium: we had plenty of entertainment (Nintendo, “Seinfeld,” grunge, “Jurassic Park”), a hip new president, and John Candy was still alive. The world was just a better place then. I don’t really miss the technology (though yeah, my phone is pretty bitchin’).

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  15. That’s a fear I didn’t have to deal with, thank goodness. The what lurks beneath about the online worlds that are designed for kids is quite literally horrifying. My daughter, despite being the earliest in her peer group to have a cell phone, now only uses her fancy smartphone to do the stuff she used to do with my old brick. Hopefully her balanced attitude will play a big part in protecting my grandchildren from those dangers. That and the fact that she is a mama lioness where her cubs are concerned.

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  16. There’s always that but… when talking about technology. I’d not want to be without mine as it’s useful. But I’ve also become aware of how much it can become an instrument of constant demands which can feel hard to get away from. I’ve largely weened myself away from that kind of life, but it’s so easy for it to become the norm.

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  17. Yup Janis, I think you are right about us loosing the battle. I didn’t disclose that the major reason I can never have an Alexa device is that I have a good friend whose name is Alexa. Whenever I visited my Mum and she asked after her, her Alexa device would go dotty trying to figure out what my mother wanted her to do! 😉

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  18. Very interesting about what happened after you read my post and mentioned your friend’s purchase. Oddly enough I haven’t gotten one ad for a standing desk.

    Which of your current devices would you hate to lose (even if it is spying on you)? I love Keyzia, my desktop computer that sits on my standing desk. I’d hate to lose her.

    And what new device might you welcome? A better cell phone would be welcome, except I’d have to figure out how to use it and I dislike adapting to new gadgets, so maybe yes, maybe no.

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  19. It is a little unnerving, Debs. I have had similar experiences with conversations on various devices, but like you, I’m not willing to give them up. If you find that robot that cleans bathrooms, let me know!

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  20. You haven’t! Hmmm… that’s just reminded me of something. From memory, I think you have an Apple desktop, Ally. After the neurosurgery incident, I started using Firefox and had no problems with such spying. But recently Firefox and Gmail stopped playing nicely and, as I use Gmail professionally, I had to go back to Chrome. I need to see if I can figure out a work around…

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  21. Christie, when I find it (I’m channelling Mark and his manifesting skills there), I will be broadcasting it to the world! 🙂

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  22. I think it’s hilarious – and the onlookers must be drowning in information overload. Bought an expresso machine the other day and immediately my feed is flooded with ads for coffee makers…how many do they think I need?

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  23. That’s bonkers Caroline! Far more useful for them to flood you with suppliers of coffee maker accessories (for there are LOTS) and purveyors of good beans.

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