That was my reputation when I worked for a small film financing company in London. While we mostly dealt with fund managers, lawyers and accountants, there were also a few directors and actors crossing our path.
When I worked there as a temp, there were many comments about my sangfroid when dealing with the likes of Sir Richard (Dickie) Attenborough, Candice Bergen and Martin Sheen. Indeed, I suspect it played a significant part in my being offered a job full-time. But I’d had practice….
In my teens, my grandparents retired to a part of southern Spain which was still rather exclusive. Before London’s criminal world relocated there and lowered the tone, a number of old film stars (Sean Connery among them) chose to make a home there, so it was common to see them around and about the local village. My mother would hiss and ask “is that xxx?” in a stage whisper, which I hated, possibly almost as much as the person being whispered about.
Thus trained, I’ve not been one to have my head turned by celebrity. I know some court publicity and attention, but I believe they deserve a life of privacy. While I don’t pretend I don’t recognise them, I make no demands of them. As a result, I’ve found myself engaged in some lovely and unexpected conversations, while also being on the receiving end of the odd harumph! π
Growing up in West Africa, there were a large number of older US TV shows screened, among which were the many series produced by Quinn Martin. A memory of those years is the male voice-over announcing – at the end of each episode – using a big important voice: “This has been a Quinn Martin production.” If I thought about it at all, I’d probably assumed it was a made up name, or a company run by a Mr Quinn and a Mr Martin. Little did I know…
Back to that cool, unflappable professional working for the film company. One day the phone rang, and Quinn Martin was on the other end asking to speak to my boss…
I stammered my way through connecting the call, then collapsed into squeaky and fan-girle behaviour afterwards, causing my colleagues to roar with laughter…. ‘cos people in the UK have never heard of Quinn Martin. When my boss heard of my reaction, he was most impressed that I knew of QM’s status in the industry (apparently his claim to fame being he had at least one television series running in prime time every year for 21 straight years) whereas the truth was… I’d just regressed to being an excited pre-teen π
How do you feel about celebrities? Are you a collector of selfies or signatures, or do you go for the cool, unflappable option?
Β© Debs Carey, 2024
I don’t generally see celebrities so it isn’t anything I have to think about. I have met several authors at book signings. I probably look cool and calm but it’s just because I have no idea what to say to them so I just say hello, get my book signed, and move on
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My life is a lot quieter these days Tater, certainly since those heady early years. A friend of mine was a Twitter friend of an author where they chatted constantly, but was still really nervous to introduce herself at an in person event. The author was absolutely lovely and truly delighted to meet her, but I guess you never know if people are like they appear to be online.
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One author did jump up to hug me when they found out I was the person they had talked to regularly over email. That was even more awkward for me
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I worked in Hollywood for years. Saw lots of stars (most of them are very short). The only time I gushingly fangirled in my life was when I met one of my favorite authors.
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Oh Tater, that made me properly LOL π But yes, it is interesting how fans can feel awkward talking to their writing heroes, forgetting that most authors really appreciate their fans.
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Autumn, that’s what I discovered in that little village in Spain – quite how short they are! Mr Connery being the sole exception, but he was grumpy and curmudgeonly instead. Although my mother’s actions may’ve caused that, to be fair.
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LOL, I have looked down on the likes of Tom Cruise and Val Kilmer.
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I’ll hold my hand up to not knowing Val was short too. You have educated me π
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Well, if you’re sharing the screen with Tom Cruise, you can’t be too tall. Especially if you are already good looking.
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I am sniggering here…
Can’t think how I missed that obvious fact! π And yes, he was beautiful…
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I’m guessing that they have a specially made platform for short men π
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Where did you get that crazy cat picture? I love it. I’ve never run into a movie star. If I did, I’d assume he wanted to be treated like an ordinary person. A group of us from the Asian Development Bank Women’s Club had lunch with Imelda Marcos. All I remember is that I was disappointed at the shabby state of the Presidential Palace. Another luncheon: My Chinese brush painting class and the mistress of President Marcos. That was impressive. She was a movie star and strikingly more beautiful than any of us.
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Nicki, the crazy cat picture is on Canva – I may be a little bit addicted to it!
What an interesting story of your experience with meeting Mrs Marcos, and then the mistress of her husband.
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Suzanne, they certainly did in the Golden Age of Hollywood!
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I’ve seen many celebrities in airports or on the street, but never approached them for a pic or an autograph. On the flip side, I stood in line in a Starbucks behind Peter Frampton and he turned around and started a conversation about the weather with me. I was surprised to say the least.
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Hugging Bruce Springsteen was one of the highlights of my life. Yeah, I gushed a little. I was less enthused about running into Flava Flav in an elevator…especially when he said a selfie would cost $5. (He relented and let me snap a pic of him and Tara for free. Wow, what a thoughtful guy.)
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OK, that is one seriously cool experience Mark! Being the music dinosaur I am, I’ve not heard of Flava Flav, but glad he decided to let you snap for free.
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Ally, that’s exactly how I like it. Allow a celebrity their privacy, and they’ll talk to you like a normal human being (if they’re a good guy of course). Oh and a cool story too π
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The only celebrity I really went gaga over was David Tennant (from Doctor Who). I saw him at a convention once. I have no idea what expression was on my face at the time, but I seemed to startle him a bit.
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James that made me *literally* LOL – thank you for allowing me to start my day so well π
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