While “home” at the time was Bangladesh, where my father was working, we children were at boarding school in the UK. We had an agreement with my parents that they would not book us on two particular airlines: Aeroflot (because of their dire safety record) and Bangladesh Biman (because even their own nationals were decidedly iffy about the safety of their fleet). Except, on this occasion, they didn’t honour that agreement….
One Christmas holiday, I travelled to London’s Heathrow airport, only to discover that we were due to fly on Bangladesh Biman. Barely before I’d had time to react and kick up a fuss, the flight disappeared off the board. Further investigation revealed that the plane had made an unscheduled landing in Stansted (another ‘London’ airport to the east of the country), following which all staff had disappeared, all desks were closed, and all phone lines went unanswered. Also, the plane itself appeared to have a hole in it’s fuselage, so (happily) was deemed unflightworthy.
As the saga unfolded, my younger sister and brother arrived, while the organisation my father’s employers engaged to sort out our travel, frantically attempted to find us replacement flights. One overnight stay in a hotel later, and we were flying first class to Delhi in India, from where we were on standby to catch a flight to Bangladesh. A representative from this same travel organisation would meet us in Delhi and handle things from there.
But you know what I’m going to say, don’t you – there was no-one there to meet us. We had no cash (my mother’s lengthy shopping list ate up all we had), no credit cards, and both the airline we’d arrived on and the one we hoped to fly on, washed their hands of us. And, of course, this was pre mobile phone. We spent 6 hours in the airport, surrounded by our luggage and waited… Not a drop to drink or anything to eat, while I (as the eldest) worried and racked my brains as to our options, should there not be 3 seats available on that flight.
Eventually the flight was called, but the airline staff simply shook their heads at us. After the last call for passengers had gone out, I was girding my loins for the battle ahead, when a member of staff ran – literally – across the terminal to us. Gathering up our luggage, we – again, quite literally – ran across the tarmac to our plane. Our luggage was thrown into the hold, and the plane was already taxiing as we found seats.
When we arrived in Bangladesh, we 3 were the first off the plane as it came to a standstill, so keen were we for that journey to end…. only to be met by my father’s employer’s travel fixer at the foot of the stairs, to be whisked through customs, told to remove from our luggage what we needed to fly onward (with our parents) to Bangkok and Kuala Lumpur, to cram said items into a carry on bag, after which we were rushed back onto the very same aircraft we’d just left. The aircrew laughed to see us returning 🙂
Although we spent a few days in Bangkok, visiting some of the sights there and along the coast, before flying to Kuala Lumpur for a few more days of R&R, my mother was traumatised… and she spent every minute of that holiday letting us all – but especially my father – know about it. Unsurprisingly, my sister, my brother and I did our best to make ourselves scarce at every opportunity.
When we finally felt able to speak to my parents about what had happened, the kicker is that they’d decided to book us on that ill-fated flight, as it would’ve arrived a day earlier, meaning our transit wouldn’t have been quite so rushed (insert eye roll here).
Do you have a long distance travel tale to share? Or even a short distance one?
© Debs Carey, 2024
I would have written about a trip to Alaska where I had to fly a small plane out into the bush. They kicked some of our luggage to a later flight as we were over weight and all I could think about on the long flight across snow covered mountain ranges was, but I rounded off!
Not nearly as exciting as your flights. Wow!
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Wow. That sounds like a seriously stressful journey. And then for your mom to go on and on?! I mean, if my husband had booked our son on something like that, I’d never have let him forget, don’t get me wrong. But I’d never take it out on the kid. I think my longest flight was a solo one from DC to Kauai as a 15-year-old–during an airline strike. So I had to change planes in Chicago, Los Angeles, and Oahu. However, my grandparents were flying me first class (huge treat, never to be duplicated again, alas). So I had no issues…except for my older sister giving me shit the rest of my life because our grandparents had flown her out in coach the year before and then used her miles to bump me up to first. It was literally the only time our birth order worked out in my favor.
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But you did eventually get to eat something, right???! 😆 Good lord, how did we ever survive in those pre-cell phone days??! Boy, that’s a story for the ages, Debs. That you ended up being herded into the very same plane again is a crack-up (but probably not at the time!). Wait, what? London has a third airport besides Heathrow and Gatwick? I never heard of Stansted. Shame on me.
The only tale I have close to that is when my parents decided I was old enough to travel alone to see former neighbors who moved from Michigan to Missouri. I was all of 11 years old. The tricky part was having to change planes in St. Louis to get to Springfield. I remember standing in a gate area (not the correct one), and a pilot came over to me and asked if I needed any help. He looked at my ticket and said I’d need to hurry, that my gate was further up the way and my flight was about to leave. As Cat Stevens sang, “Made it just in time; boy, you made it just in time!” I don’t know what my parents were thinking, honestly. – Marty
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Holy mackerel, I don’t think many people could top that one, Debs!!
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Oh, Deb, I’m so sorry. That is a lot to go through as a child. I can’t imagine how scary that had to be. Do you have any anxiety about flying after going through that?
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I honestly can’t imagine any parent doing that now. Though putting a child on a train with a tag around there neck heading to visit family has been regaled to me lately. They breed them tough in our day 😉
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I don’t know which is my longest flight: someplace in Asia or Europe or the South Pacific. But since you mentioned Aeroflot, I did have an experience there.
In 1992, after the breakup of the Soviet Union, my daughter got a job in the Russian Far East, in Magadan of gulag fame. (She wanted to make use of her Russian.) Alaska Airlines must have thought, well, the world has changed. We can arrange tours from Anchorage to Magadan now. (As Sarah Palin famously said, she could see Russia from her porch.) So my husband and I signed up. The flight on Alaska Airlines was great, really interesting scenery on the way over, landscape I couldn’t even identify. We spent some time with our daughter and did some sightseeing in Magadan. Then Alaska took the tour group down to Khabarovsk and Vladivostok. At some point the tour split up, and our group took an Aeroflot flight for part of the way back. People on the tarmac paid bribes so they could fly free, which meant there were no seats for them so they stood in the aisle. The whole aisle was full of free-loaders. I don’t remember if it was a rough flight or whether anyone brought chickens with them. I just remember the woman standing above us dripping sweat on my husband’s head.
I hear Aeroflot has not improved.
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Zazzy, that sounds amazing and I’m enormously envious of you having had that experience. Downright scary in its own way too, I’d imagine.
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Autumn, I’ve long had mixed feelings about how my Mum behaved after that experience. I mean, I absolutely would not suggest that it didn’t scare her silly (except she knew nothing about us being stuck without support in Delhi until after we arrived), it was the fact that we children weren’t given the space to express our fear because her trauma had to have been greater. But I can see now, that’s all part of the pattern I only recently understood.
Flying first class was a massive treat for us too, and was such a stark contrast to those 6 hours which followed. A pity we were too young to take advantage of the champagne!
We did so much flying back and forth while children due to being in boarding school that I actually found it easier than catching a bus. But that’s because it all went so smoothly most of the time. I was very careful to build in fallback and failsafe arrangements for my daughter anytime she travelled without me as a result.
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Marty, we didn’t eat until we got to the hotel in Bangkok! It was a long wait for 3 scared and hungry children (OK, in my case a young teen). It certainly shaped me in that I make plans based on the assumption that something will go wrong, while always saying “that way we won’t need them” in my jolliest voice. The aircrew did find it a crack-up, and their reaction helped to break the tension for us, that’s for sure. And they were kind enough to make a fuss of us.
I don’t blame you for not having heard of Stansted. It’s even further out of London than the other two, and I’ve only flown out of it once myself.
Marty, I can only assume that everyone believed adults would automatically care for children travelling alone. But that isn’t always the case, although you were very lucky with that pilot. I don’t know what either of our parents were thinking honestly! Fortunately, we both survived.
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Jane, it certainly is a great “what can go wrong” story, but I’ve heard some fabulous tales of travel experiences (like Zazzy’s) which I think do top mine.
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Kari, thank you ❤ I don't have any anxiety about flying myself, no. But I was very careful with the arrangements I put into place for my daughter travelling without me. When she was travelling in Bali, her bank cancelled her card in an admin mistake. Fortunately I'd arranged for her have a credit card on my account to take as a fall back, so had time to get her new bank card out to her via the local Amex office before things could go bad. Especially important as the girl she was travelling with had already run out of money and had no backup plan.
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No doubt Suzanne, there was a lot of trust that other adults and representatives of travel organisations would look out for children travelling alone. I’m not sure how much that actually did happen, but yes it is scary how much reliance there was on the kindness of strangers back then.
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Nicki, the story of your Aeroflot flight is both gob-smacking and hilarious in equal parts. Sounds much like the stories of Haj flights where flight crews have to persuade passengers not to fire up their little stoves in the aisle to cook on.
But your flight on Alaska Airlines sounds amazing, and I’m also feeling considerable amounts of envy for that part of your experience.
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About the only interesting experience I can think of is flying in a C-130 cargo plane from Hawaii to California. There were no windows, the interior was very bare bones, the seats faced the rear of the plane, it was noisy, and our food service was a box lunch consisting of a sandwich and chips. And yet, I’m glad I got to do that; not many people can say the same!
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Your travels sound like they were stressful, but also shaped you into who you are now.
Farthest I’ve flown from home would be Kauai HA, a flight without incident. My scariest flight would be one going into Dallas TX when the landing gear wasn’t working properly, meaning we were going to land without wheels. We circled the airport to use up fuel, were instructed to brace for impact, and shown how to use emergency exits. Fire brigades were along the edge of the runway, but thankfully a few seconds before we landed the wheels lowered and we landed without setting fire to the plane. Memorable experience, I tell you.
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Wow, now that’s an experience to talk about Mark! How on earth did you get to fly on a cargo plane?
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Ally, you are spot on. I learned so much from that one experience – things like planning, preparing for the worst, and self-reliance, all of which stood me in good stead.
Now your experience, that was just pure fear. I’ve flown a lot, but – fortunately – never had an emergency flight situation.
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The furthest I have ever flown from home would be either Ho Chi Minh City (Saigon) or Christchurch New Zealand. Both flights out were uneventful, but for the homeward Vietnam flight I had the worst headache ever and was puking all the time, the final puke being as we were descending into Gatwick (another London airport, btw) and, for the homeward NZ flight, I was suffering from Covid.
My worst flight, however, was travelling to and from Los Angeles. Because a relative was a stewardess with one of the major British airlines, we were attempting to fly standby. Having got up early and driven from home, we weren’t able to get on the first LA flight that day so we had to wait for the second one, which was in the evening, with all our luggage around us. We were about not to get on that second flight but, because our relative was working the flight, we were allowed on. Seats would be found for us ‘somewhere’. ‘Somewhere’ turned out to be temporary crew seats in the galley, which rolled up and down along with the food trolleys. Later, we were moved to business class (as otherwise the crew would not be able to serve food or drinks). Not bad!
For speed, we had checked in every single bit of luggage (which you were allowed to do in those days), but when we arrived at LAX, none of it was on the carousel. When we queried at the Lost Luggage desk, the desk clerk pointed to a stack of ‘lost’ suitcases by the wall. This was a year or two after 9/11. Had anyone considered the possibility of there being bombs in these cases? LAX by name and nature!
The holiday itself was a disaster, so after a fortnight we were relieved to be setting off home again. This time we got standby seats straightaway, but, on returning to London Heathrow… again, no luggage on the carousel.
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My dad was in the Air Force at the time, so they allowed this whenever space was available. We only did it the one time, but it was pretty cool.
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Oh yes, I forgot you were a forces brat 🙂
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I too flew with Aeroflot on an internal flight in the late 80s. I seem to remember people standing in the aisles smoking. One person had a dog (on a lead)
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Oh Rosemary, that sounds dire. And, blimey, those lost cases still hanging around… I can but hope they were checked in some way, but I suspect not. As you say, LAX by name and nature.
Your throwing up experience reminds me of the flight we took which seemed to stop everywhere and there was a family who were emigrating to Australia on the flight. Each time we took off and landed, they were all puking into their little bags. And they were going all the way, so I suspect they were mentioned in dispatches at the time of the multiple crew changes!
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A dog on a lead Caroline? Oh my…. But yes, the tales of Aeroflot are legendary!
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