My trusty workhorse desktop PC died last Friday morning…
It’s given me multiple years of good service, but has been slowing down in the past few months. I’ve considered whether it was time to replace it but – you know what it’s like – it’s a faff, an upheaval, a downright PITA in fact. Also Himself has a way of making me feel like I’m being self-indulgent when I decide it’s time for something new before the old one breaks. So I put it off.
I was more than a bit peeved when it finally happened though, ‘cos it followed hard on the heels of a recent TV upheaval. Short story – TV not well, gets sent for diagnosis, week later is pronounced terminal. Longer story – we head to the store where I allow myself to be convinced to get a bigger size (what is it about men and big TVs?) Up till now, I’ve fought this, for we only have a small apartment and I don’t want the TV to take over our living room. But it was his birthday coming up, and he’d not come up with any ideas of what he wanted (and refuses to be gifted anything other than little surprises – of the Christmas stocking variety), so I agreed – on the basis it would be my gift to him.
After much musing and measuring, this enormous thing gets placed in our car where it only just fits, and then the real upheaval starts. It’s turns out to be too heavy for the existing table, so a new TV stand has to be ordered, which is so big, it’s not only the existing table which has been displaced, but also my fancy writing desk. As selling second-hand furniture is currently impossible in the UK via any outlet than charity shops, I have started the process of ringing round multiple charities in an attempt to donate them (they’re good quality and in good condition) So, while waiting for their response and while crammed in with both the huge TV and stand, as well and the furniture yet to be disposed of, Himself breaks the news that the TV will not be his gift, ‘cos he has other ideas. By the way, at this time, we are a matter of mere days before his birthday. Oh, and when he says he has ideas, they’re not actually fully formed quite yet. Yeah…
And just as I’m recovering and catching my breath from that upheaval, that’s when my PC dies. No problem thinks I, we’ll just pop to the shops to pick up a new one – except, ‘cos there’s a Black Friday sale going on, there’s no stock which will meet my needs anywhere within the southeast corner of the country, at which news I may’ve sworn very eloquently and at some length.
It’s felt like a long wait (although was only a couple of days in fact), and it’s now here and mostly set up, but – surprise, surprise – it also involved a major re-organization of my desk. In truth, a significant declutter is required, but… I’ve had a veritable breakout of work deadlines in just two days offline, so am going to have to live with the chaos for a while longer.
That said, it’s probably not the best use of my time to be be sitting here, writing my blog and complaining to the internet, but… 😉
Any insight on the men and big TVs thing you’d care to share? Or suggestions how to make my living room feel less cinema and more cozy home?
© Debs Carey, 2024
Phew, what a week! I’m with you wrt the big TVs. Fortunately, my husband doesn’t follow the norm in that regard, but our friends kids enjoy poking fun at our non-movie-screen size screens. I thought we were the ones that had the poor eyesight?!
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No idea why some men like big screen TVs, my husband doesn’t like them so not all men. I know putting a TV above the fireplace is a thing, but how do you watch it without straining your neck and eyes while looking up? For a cozier room I’d suggest putting a TV in a corner, on a table or chest of drawers, so you can still have a homey focal point.
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Jane, I thought Himself wasn’t a “normal” kind of guy, but in this area, it turns out he is! In his defense, when it’s something visually good on the screen, the new TV is simply gorgeous… but there’s far too much where I could really do without the level of detail. But yes, agree with you about kids being cheeky 🙂
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Oh wow Ally, both you & Jane have those magnificent rare creatures as your husbands 🙂 I’ve thought the same about fireplaces too. Our living is a long rectangle with the kitchen at one end and patio doors at the other. I feel boxed in, but suspect there’s little we can do with that shape of room. Only thing I can think of is to play those clips of fireplaces ablaze on a constant loop.
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I would probably have a reasonable-sized TV if it wasn’t for my husband. I must admit, though, that I enjoy watching a big screen). As far as your husband’s late gift suggestions… I guess there is always Christmas.
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I hate it when one thing leads to another and then another and then another thing. A terminal TV isn’t just a replacement, but a step up to a larger TV. But you can’t just bring it home and plug it in; you need to change the furniture and get rid of the old stuff. And on and on. When things like that happen, I become hesitant to make even needed changes.
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Janis, I did manage to wrangle his suggestions together *just* in time for his birthday, although it was a scramble which probably added to my sense of upheaval. I am building up for the Christmas struggle now…
Like you, there are some gorgeous pieces of – in particular – wildlife and landscape filming which have been simply sumptuous to view on the big screen. I don’t doubt that I’ll get used to it, but I may be less accepting of the gore and violent viewing…
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Nicki, you’ve hit the nail precisely on the head. Especially frustrating is the stuff I am motivated to change but keeps falling to the bottom of the list, because my scant supply of energy and enthusiasm is used up by the less welcome stuff. This aging malarky is no barrel of laughs sometimes.
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Have you seen those picture frames you can get for big-screen TVs? They make your TV look like a piece of art! It’s such a cool idea. When you have people over (or even when you’re just hanging out), you can put on a soundscape station from YouTube—music with a beautiful scene—and suddenly, your TV isn’t an eyesore anymore. ❤️🤣
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The closest I can relate is to buying a refrigerator that was too tall for the existing space due to overhead cabinets, which required an emergency call to a handyman for removal of said overhead cabinets. You know how they say, Measure twice, cut once? We jumped straight to the cutting part…
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OMG, the big TV obsession. So relatable. Best thing I ever did was insist on an entertainment center with a cabinet for the TV that shuts. He’s only been able to upgrade the TV once. I’ve said that if he wants to remodel that cornered create a bigger, built-in cabinet, that would be fine. Since he’s super frugal, no takers yet…
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I’ve not seen those Kari – thank you, I shall investigate 🙂 ❤
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Autumn, that reminds me of our earlier years before we lived together and I did have one of those units, so the TV was restricted. I no longer have that unit sadly… Clearly a BIG mistake to let that go to a family member when we moved.
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Mark, that made me literally LOL. Do you know, when my parents bought their first dishwasher, they went to one of those huge discount warehouses without having taken measurements. That dishwasher lived in the corner of my bedroom for YEARS before the kitchen was remodeled so it could to fit. I did measure the space for the TV, but what I didn’t take into consideration was the difference in weight would cause the existing table to sway disconcertingly on the horribly deep pile carpet. And it turns out the weight has to be distributed over a larger space, hence the disaster.
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It’s so much easier just mounting things to walls!
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Tell me about it!
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LOL
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I’m afraid I will type something mean about your husband and/or about men in general. Let me acknowledge up front I don’t know your husband or all the men in the world nor am I aware of everyone’s personal situations.
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Sorry to hear about demise of your desktop PC. Glad to hear you’ve found another one. I also have a desktop PC, with 2 monitors, and it’s set up on a desk with lots of space to work. I wouldn’t go back to a laptop for anything.
Desktop PCs rule!
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Zazzy, I absolutely love you! Your rant is soooo very on point, and it made me laugh out loud because my sister-in-law (who I also love to bits) is the same as Himself, and it’s usually my brother saying the words you are saying. They’re both Scorpios, so we replace the word “men” with “Scorpios” when we rant, often using your brilliant words. Fortunately, we don’t have a dog – or a cat for that matter- for if we did, there’s no way that TV would have been allowed in, as we both know that cats are little buggers and have a tendency to knock things over just to prove who’s boss (my neighbour’s cat has knocked over one TV in her apartment already).
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Rosemary, I totally adored my old sage green Dell Inspiron laptop. It was robust and totally bomb-proof, even while I lugged it around all over the place with me. It was only when the keyboard started to fail that I had to give it up, and was gutted they never made another one as good. My friend had a matching one in pink, and we both mourned their demise. We both quickly moved to desktops after that, as no other laptop came close.
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