I’ve hurt my knee – my previously “good” knee – to the extent that I’m now wearing a knee brace. My Osteopath suggested I get a proper one and, after a lot of to-ing and fro-ing, I said I’d found one which was suitable for a torn lateral meniscus, adding: “even though my meniscus isn’t torn”. My Osteopath hmm-ed. Oddly, I did not ask her to clarify her hmm. Right now, I’m not sure I want to know any more potentially bad news, so shall just continue to hobble on in my brace.
We’re still waiting for the contract to sign on our new property. We’ve been waiting 2 weeks, and it’s 2 weeks until the proposed moving in date. You won’t be surprised to hear I am getting twitchy. I have expressed my twitchiness to the agents, who’ve given one more different excuse as to why we don’t have it yet. I will admit this excuse sounds like an actual reason rather than an excuse, nevertheless, tomorrow I’m looking at another property. I like it a lot more than the original one. I’m hoping the in the flesh experience lives up to the photographs. Send positive thoughts…
It is cold here and I have one. Well, I’ve had a sort of cold for quite a while now, but it seems to be making more of an effort to become a proper one this week. I do not want a cold. However much I want to pull up the drawbridge and snuggle with multiple books and hot tea, I am mid-declutter and need to get stuff done. I shall continue to drink the Vit C and Zinc…
While saying I’ve been busy decluttering, the stats prove that I’ve actually done a lot of reading. Only 5 books, but most were long ones. Indeed, they average at over 400 pages, despite including one novella. As one of them merited the full 5-stars, I can count January as a good start to 2025’s reading.
I appear to have stopped taking my anti-depressants. Not by intent I should add. A little over a week ago, I ran out, and kept missing the times when my pharmacy was open – every day, for a week. I mean, clearly my behaviour indicates I’d like not to be taking them (if for no other reason than ‘cos they interact negatively with one of my other medications), but I didn’t really feel that I was in the right frame of mind to be adding anti-depressant withdrawal to life’s seemingly constant stream of challenges. Nevertheless, here I am. I finally have some tablets sitting in my drawer in case I feel the need. Fingers crossed that I don’t, and that this turns out to be the most trouble-free weening off of my life so far.
It is my grandson’s birthday this month. I don’t know if we’ll make it into our new home before the big day, or whether my daughter’s family will make it into their new house before the big day (yeah, there’s a lot of moving in this family’s immediate future). Either way, he’s of an age to have got the hang of this presents and celebrating thing, so I’m thinking it’ll be loads of fun. I am looking forward to fun of the 4-year old small boy variety – it’s just the sort of thing a weary old grandma needs to provide joy.
What’s going on in your world – be it big or small, complaint or joy, silly or serious?
Β© Debs Carey, 2025
I hope your knee feels better soon. Good luck finding a property to move to soon.
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Oh my gosh, Debs, you really do have a lot on your plate. I hope you feel better soon and that everyone gets to move into the property of their dreams! We went through all that buying, moving, and selling angst last year, now weβre happily settled in our new digs. If only the worldβs wrecking ball south of our border werenβt disrupting the rhythm of life so appallingly.
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I am impressed by how well you’re handling everything going on in your world. I chuckled with your line: “…but I didnβt really feel that I was in the right frame of mind to be adding anti-depressant withdrawal to lifeβs seemingly constant stream of challenges.”Β That kind of self-awareness will keep you going as you move. Good to hear from you, btw.
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Congrats on the knee brace, the property, and the joy of a four-year-old boy. I think back on when my son was 4 and how much energy he had. Wearing him out was a daily marathon. I can’t imagine trying to do that now!
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Thank you Natalie. I just heard that we’ve been accepted into the property I mentioned, and may have squealed with delight! Once this move is complete, I hope to return to a proper writing routine as that has fallen off the schedule.
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Thanks Jane – I hadn’t really given it much thought until I sat down to write this. The good news is that after writing this post on Monday, I viewed (and loved) the property on Tuesday, put in an immediate offer, and have just had our acceptance – subject to the usual checks. So, I am *extremely* happy and now just have to frantically get rid of all our excess stuff so we can move into this little apartment in a Georgian townhouse. As you say, but for the Orange Man, life would be a lot happier.
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Thanks Ally, as I was writing it, I was surprising myself to realise that I’d neither wanted to hit anyone nor cried yet. The fact that I’ve just heard that property I viewed is ours, increases the likelihood of those two things not occurring for a bit longer! I am so delighted to see you in my in box and to have you back in blogging world π
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Autumn, I take my hat off to his parents who are remarkably fit and active as they cope with him and his sister – both real live wires, adorable, but oh the energy!
I have traded in the knee brace for a support sleeve today and feel a lot more comfortable and equally as supported, so am crossing fingers that my Osteopath won’t turn her nose up at it.
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De-cluttering and moving is so hard! Besides all the lifting and bending, it’s all the little decisions that have to be made. That’s tiring in another way. When you’re all settled and cozy in at your new house and for years afterwards, you can feel proud of what you did. I handled my last move alone after my husband died, and now I can’t imagine how I did it.
I’m so sorry you have your knee, a cold, and a problem with your medicine to contend with at the same time.
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Oh, that really is good news! π
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Moving is tough, especially this time of year when all we want to do is snuggle up and read a book. Iβm so sorry about your knees. My mom has really bad knees too, but sheβs been able to get injections for the pain. Enjoy your grandsonβs joyful party! We take the joy when we can, donβt we!?
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Thanks for the empathy & understanding Nicki. Yes, it is tough. I had started a mega declutter until we found somewhere which was big enough not to require it. But, I wasn’t entirely convinced by it, and the landlord/agents have behaved in a manner that made both Himself & I uncertain, hence why I took a look at this new place. It is small, so back to the mega declutter I go. I think I love this place so much that letting things go is a lot easier.
Going through all that on your own must’ve been a real challenge. I know that we do things when we have no other choice, but I take my hat off to you in coping as well as you have.
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It totally made my day – hell, it may’ve made my week, month & year! π
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Kari, I’m so sorry to hear about your mother’s knee troubles – they are so key to our mobility that the impact can be enormous. I am glad the pain injections are effective. Fortunately, it’s more than they give way rather than the level of pain which is my problem, although I know that one tends to be a precursor to the other, hence why I am getting treatment. But yet, grabbing the joy everywhere we can for sure π
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I sympathise with the knee Debs, currently on holiday with daughter, son in law and soon to turn one grandson, my previously fine knee is agony and throwing everything else off as I limp π©Ό
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Oh Sarah, that sounds horrid, but totally recognise the throwing everything else off aspect. I can recommend a very good Osteopath in Petersfield if you’re interested. Take good care of yourself while enjoying that gorgeous family time x
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Aww, I’m sorry. Aging sure is hard on our human bodies, isn’t it? ππ©·
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Geez, between all that to’ing and fro’ing and hmm’ing and twitching, sounds like you have a lot going on! Fingers crossed you get the house situation sorted out one way or another.
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Mark, it has surely been interesting. We move next week – and into the lovely place I was asking you lovely people in blog land for positive thoughts on. I am practicing manifestation in order to emulate you, and cannot believe that we’ll be moving 2 weeks after the details popped unexpectedly into my in box π
At the weekend I called for a lovely young rugby player from my club to score his first try for the national side – only for it to happen. I may’ve had the odd tear in my eyes…
I’m going to be going all out on manifesting from now on.
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I hope that knee is on the mend πβ¨
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Cherryl, thank you. Moving has been challenging for it, but my Osteopath is doing stirling work to get me through and out the other side. Hopefully not too much longer, and all the boxes will be gone and we’ll have things where we want them, and she can return to moving it forward long term.
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