Yet more questions about reading

For those of you who are either not readers – or just not in a navel-gazing kind of way – I promise there won’t be more than a couple of these a year.

Is there a book you just couldn’t finish?
A Fine Balance by Rohinton Mistry. On paper, this book was right up my street… but I just couldn’t get through it, despite trying truly hard to do so. Worse, I even lost my love of reading after each attempt. Maybe I should’ve paid closer attention to the blurb which read: “A Dickensian modern classic” for I have a tricky relationship with Dickens, having only enjoyed a couple of his (short) books.

How many different books did you manage to read at once?
I don’t generally read more than one book at a time, as I tend to become fully engrossed in whatever I am reading. When studying for professional qualifications, I presumed I’d be able to fit in a work of fiction or two amongst the psychology, but discovered it was easier to go cold turkey on the fiction in order to focus completely and utterly. But I’ll admit that when my studies ended (and fortunately I’ve not studied for longer than one year at a time in my mature years), I was ready to fall like the proverbial voracious wolf back onto works of fiction 😉

What’s the longest book you managed to read?
I enjoy a lengthy book, although it mustn’t be self-indulgently so (see the comment about my relationship with Dickens above). When I joined a book club, the first book was This Thing of Darkness by Harry Thompson. At 768 pages, it was over double the length of usual selections, yet was a brilliant read, much admired and enjoyed by each member of the club – a rare event, repeated only once in all the years we were together. I’ll admit there’s been a fair few long books I’ve come away from saying “that would’ve benefitted from a damn good edit”, but that doesn’t put me off longer books; perhaps it was all that Russian literature I read in school 😉 I believe the longest book I’ve read (and much enjoyed) was A Suitable Boy by Vikram Seth, which comes in at close to 1500 pages.

Do you prefer to read classics or modern books?
I’ve a preference for modern contemporary literature. Anytime I measure my reading against those best read or classics lists, there’s still many I’ve not read. It used to bother me, but to chuck in a few clichés – life is too short, and there’s too many books and not enough time. Now I focus on selecting books I’ve a reasonable degree of confidence I’ll enjoy. And that policy seems to be working as, last year, there was only one book I felt was a waste of my time.

How many books would you say you own? And how much do you think your book collection is worth today?
The simply answer is too many. I have quite a few bookcases, and still have the odd pile of books here and there looking for a home. I had a big purge a few years back, but am probably due another one – certainly Himself has been sending me suggestions of places to donate/sell books 😉 In terms of their financial worth… regardless what they cost me, they are likely to be worth very little now, as the second hand market is not what you’d call buoyant except in the rarest of circumstances.

What book do you think nobody should die without reading?
Erm… who cares? The only book anyone should read before dying is one they really want to read and feel they would regret not doing so. And that’s an entirely personal choice. When Christopher Hitchens was asked what he regretted when facing death from cancer, his answer was “all the books remaining unread”. So, if that’s how you feel about books – or any book in particular – pick that one, not some random book anyone else nominates.

Which book do you think is the most overrated? And is there a book that is extremely popular but you somehow skipped on reading?
There are a few, the work of the Bronte sisters notable among them – but one pattern I find interesting is that despite being a fan of literary prizes, winners of the Pulitzer Prize for Literature just didn’t seem to be my type of read for many years. So I started to skip them. My mind has been changed somewhat since Colson Whitehead’s The Underground Railroad won in 2017. But, while I’d buy a Booker winner almost regardless of the blurb, I’d not do the same with a Pulitzer – not yet anyway.

What about you – how would you reply to these questions)?

© Debs Carey, 2025

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  1. I’m not sure I could answer these questions in my current frame of mind. I love books, and have more than anyone needs even after our downsizing purges, but I just don’t seem to be able to get into nonfiction at the moment. I’ve been sticking with nonfiction, even though that doesn’t help my state of mind!

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  2. Jane, I can understand that completely. There’s no doubt state of mind can be seen from the choices readers make in their reading matter. I’ve been able to see the state of my mental health writ large through my reading record on Goodreads.

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  3. • West with Giraffes by Lynda Rutledge – too cornball and homespun for me

    •2 or 3 books at once

    • Hawaii by James Michner – years ago

    • A mix of classics and modern leaning more into the latter as I get older

    • We have hundreds of books in this house. I sold about 100 old ones last summer for $59.45. Books aren’t worth much money-wise.

    •The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz

    • My Name is Lucy Barton by Elizabeth Strout – loved Olive Kitteridge though

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  4. I don’t know if it was the longest by page count, but the book that felt the longest was Joyce’s “Ulysses.” It’s as overrated as all the white male, midlife crisis books that white male critics have insisted are “literary fiction.” The longest book I enjoyed was probably “Team of Rivals” by Doris Kearns Goodwin (995 pages), a biography of Abraham Lincoln. My book collection is more expensive and expansive than my husband would like–I don’t buy books anymore, but I still have all the books I bought as a film, English lit, and American History major in college. I have no shame about not finishing more than half the books I start reading; if the characters don’t appeal, or the research is shoddy, or I start editing the book in my head, I’m out. Life is too short. If there was a book everyone should read, it’s probably “Maus,” in the hope of preventing more genocide. I love Austen, but not the over-the top drama of the Brontes. Mostly I’m a serial reader, and I appreciate all your recommendations–especially “Anybody Out There?” by Marian Keyes, though it made me cry.

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  5. Let’s see…
    Lots of books that I couldn’t finish- most recently some under the literary fiction genre that just made no sense to me at all.

    Sometimes 2 books at once, although not my preferred habit. It has to be a very short one alongside something longer if I attempt two at one time. More than two and I feel like I’ve returned to college and am reading multiple texts for research.

    I would guess War & Peace way back in highschool, or maybe Anna Karenina. High school was definitely my classics phase! I started the Diana Gabaldon Outlander series when they first came out and I think one of those was incredibly long as well. I balk if a book is more than about 300 pages. It would have to be absolutely mesmerizing to keep me interested if longer than that. Just tell me the story and let me move on!

    As noted, I’ve worked my way through most of “the classics” long ago, tried to go back and read a few but no- no real desire to live in the past.

    Literally sitting on my shelf as owned books right now- about 10 I think. I buy only used if I absolutely can’t find a book I really want to read at the library, then try at some point to sell them back. Never get very much for them. I’ve hung on to books for years thinking I would re-read them. I never do. We also have lots of Little Free Library kiosks here so I often put read books in those for others to grab. I don’t want to force my kids to have to deal with lots of stuff in 30 years or so.

    I have no notion that I could pick one book that would contain something meaningful or profound or important to another person. Read what you like would be my motto. I would however suggest reading the occasional book that you could never imagine yourself reading. I was not raised with any religious following or viewpoint. Religion was always just a vague notion in my childhood. I remember being very curious in my teen years and I chose to read the Bible. I read it a few times again over the succeeding years. It did nothing to change my views on religion in general but did bolster my curiosity about things like social organization, control and power, the development of social order

    Not sure I think that much about books in general, nor do I really go in for ratings, reviews, must-read recommendations, etc. I am a reader who can be open to many genres, will try new things but also am not afraid to say no thanks and put aside something that just doesn’t fit or grab me.

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  6. Ally, I’m impressed with your ability to book juggle, as it’s not something I’ve learned to do. I did wonder if any of the multiple James Michner books I’ve read would be the longest, only to be surprised, because the one I nominated didn’t feel long on the first read, although it did on the second – one reason I really need to let go of most of my already read fiction! You’ve recommended The Four Agreements before, I think it’s on a TBR list somewhere – I must look it out and shove it upwards. Oddly, I’m the other way round with Lucy Barton and Olive Kitteridge 🙂

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  7. You’ve read “Ulysses”? Autumn, I doff my hat to you, I never even considered picking it up as it felt it would be all that you described it as! Your collection must be magnificent. I’ve kept very little in the way of fiction, mostly only a few comfort reads which I’ve re-read multiple times. I am even considering replacing those with Kindle copies. My overloaded bookcases are mostly psychology related. I’ve only just got to a stage when I will discard a book if it fails. Mind you, I do give it a good go – usually getting to half way through, and that’s something I could do with scaling back on. I’m so glad you enjoyed that Marian Keyes. It made me cry too. In fact, I both laughed and cried. I suspect I was a snotty mess.

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  8. I’m a self-confessed fan of literary fiction Deb, but there’s some which have me rolling my eyes so loudly I’m probably deafening the people in the back. I like literary fiction which teaches me something or makes me think or which is beautifully written, but navel gazing pretentious shit? No! I am impressed with those who read multiples books at the same time. Clearly my brain doesn’t have that capacity, although I don’t believe I tried it when younger and more able to multi-task like a pro. I’ve been thinking about re-reading War & Peace of late, as I read it such a long time ago (in school). But… it is long, and what if I hate it this time, or even just find it disappointing? I’d never thought of my book collection as being a drudge for my daughter to deal with. I’m hoping that she can simply donate them to a school or college where Psychology is taught. Funnily enough, I did study the Bible. It’s a long story, but I got “persuaded” to study it to make up class numbers (from 1 to 2) in order for me to study something else. I treated it like a piece of literature, and was pleasantly surprised to be allowed to do so by the nuns in my catholic school. Like you, it did nothing to change my views on religion. The older I’ve gotten, the more I’m not prepared to waste my time on books which are popular or highly recommended and have become very picky about whose recommendations I gave weight to. It seems to be working 🙂

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  9. I read all 7 books in the Clan of the Cave Bear series. Plus, I’ve read The Hobbit and the Lord of the Rings books several times. Moby Dick was a tough one to complete but I did it, eventually.

    There is an Audio book, Paris by Edward Rutherford, that I have been trying to “read” for years, but I haven’t gotten past the first 2 disks, even though I enjoy the story. I read his book Sarum and loved it. I thought that the audio book would be even better, but it hasn’t yet got me hooked enough to put in the 3rd disk.

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  10. Fascinating questions.

    Amazon Prime gives us a choice of about 8 or 9 free books every month. They’re all new books I think. I tried one or two and stopped after a couple of pages.

    I sometimes read two books at a time. I read twice a day, once in the afternoon while I’m doing my nebulizer and then at night before bed. Still, I enjoy reading just one book at a time.

    I prefer modern books. There’s a time and a place for everything. Long long ago I read Crime and Punishment and liked it. Recently I thought I’d try it again, but I couldn’t get through it. It seemed slow and repetitious.

    I have several bookcases full of books. I’ve never thought about what they might be worth. I’ll just give them away anyway. I think someday I might want to read one of them again, but I doubt that I ever will.

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  11. Ooh, this grabbed my attention!

    A book I couldn’t finish – actually one I just couldn’t get into. Demon Copperhead by Barbara Kingsolver. I love her books but this one just didn’t grab me in any way. BTW – I was interested that you didn’t get on with A Fine Balance. One of my all time favourites and one I have re-read.

    How many different books do I read at once? – Only one at a time for me

    The longest book – I think, like you, A Suitable Boy which I love

    Classics or modern – modern contemporary for me

    How many books do I own – when we moved here 10 years ago we brought over 2000 books with us which didn’t work well as we were downsizing and just didn’t have the shelf space. We got rid of quite a few to a book dealer and boxed the rest. During lockdown I produced a spreadsheet of all the ones we didn’t want and sent a message out to everyone I knew in the village. People told me what they wanted and I delivered. Win – win. Value? No idea but the ones I’ve kept are the ones I love.

    Really not sure about this one – what book do I think nobody should die without reading. I think it’s too personal.

    Which book do I think is most overrated? Anything by Colleen Hoover who seems to top the best seller lists and I have no idea why.

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  12. The only time I can read two books at once is if one of them is nonfiction, e.g., I was reading a book on aquarium plants while also reading a novel last week. No overlap there. Otherwise, it’s much too confusing. I’d probably be looking for Dumbledore in Mordor.

    I will say, one book everyone should read before they die is “No Time For Kings.”

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  13. Earl, my youngest sister was a huge fan of the Clan of the Cave Bear series, but I wasn’t able to get into the first one I tried. Same with the Hobbit, although I did force myself to read LOTR on the basis of “book first, movie after” ‘cos I really wanted to see the films.

    I’ve tried audio books – indeed, they’ve been a godsend when I’ve been ill or recovering from back trouble, but I do love to have a book in my hands – be it real or electronic.

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  14. Oh, interesting to hear about your experience with Dostoyevsky the second time round Nicki, I’ve had a vague idea of re-reading “War & Peace” as I read it in school. That said, the last book I read – and which was one I absolutely loved – didn’t work out so well on the re-read. Hmmm…

    There are a small number of books which I do re-read – the thrillers of Dick Francis which are my absolute comfort reads, but also a couple the big tomes written by James Michener – “Centinnial” and “Chesapeake” in particular. Otherwise, I’m probably kidding myself about re-reading… That’s why I largely moved my fictional reading to Kindle, at least they don’t take up physical space then.

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  15. Sarah, I wish I could get to the bottom of my problem with “A Fine Balance” – it is exactly my kind of book, but I tried (and failed) three times. I suspect it may’ve been related to my emotional state at the time of reading, as it was in the final year of my relationship with my ex. Unfortunately, the final time I tried, it left me feeling utterly meh about reading, and it took months for me to get back to it, which is why I haven’t risked trying again. I enjoyed Demon Copperhead, but can’t say I loved it – not like some of her others.

    I’m still hopeful that Vikram Seth will complete or decide to publish (whichever the case may be) the companion to “A Suitable Boy”.

    I’ll admit that I’ve never dated to count my books! I have decluttered a couple of times, either donating to local schools (my art books) or charity shops (mostly fiction). I never thought of trying a book dealer, although that’s where Himself is directing me this time. What a good idea about distributing them locally. I struggle to find people who share my taste in books and think it’s time to find a new – and local – book group.

    I’ve not heard of Colleen Hoover, but on the basis of your comment alone, I shall find it easy to avoid her!

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  16. Ha ha! Nice one Mark 🙂

    I thought I’d be OK when reading psychology and fiction in being able to separate the two, but found it easier not to. I’m the same when I’m writing fiction, it’s best if I’m not reading something fictional at the same time. Clearly my brain is single tracked in that particular section…

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  17. Nicki, those tales of his are so dense with detail and intricate stories of evolution that they’ve yet to disappoint me – hopefully it would be the same for you if you decided to re-read.

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