Kari inspired my previous list, and though I believed I’d emptied that particular bucket, it appears not. This list is shorter, but also includes little bit of what and why about each listed item.
- Drawings or sketches done in pencil or charcoal – there’s something about the light and free nature of them.
- The life drawing in pencil done by my daughter when she was taking a course in Florence. I found it in an old art portfolio of hers, and had it framed. It’s going to look perfect in our new living room.
- My little Ricoh GRIII camera – so small it fits in my pocket, and yet has a great quality lens. It’s ideal for when my back is playing up or when I don’t want to be burdened with the full camera kit.
- A couple of cups and saucers by Shelley (the ceramicists, not the poet) – all I have left of my pottery collection of that era, one of which is from the tea set gifted to my parents at their wedding.
- Two Burmese wooden busts which belonged to my parents and probably originated from the time we lived on the Northeastern frontier in India; they bring to mind my parents oldest friends of whom I was fond (he was Burmese).
- A 6-inch high metal statue of dancing Shiva – my mother had three, so I offered to give a good home to one. This is my second Hindu deity, but I admit I’d also love a Ganesh…
- A set of linen frames, sparsely decorated around the edge with flowers formed from thin ribbons – one houses my daughter’s wedding photo, the other two each hold a photo of my grandchildren.
- My new glasses – one pair for reading/working on a computer, the other for driving – each of them having an anti-glare coating, a most effective, if new-to-me option.
- A miniature old-style delivery vehicle liveried with my current employer’s logo which was produced as a marketing gimmick/giveaway. I found it in a drawer, but it now sits on my desk. I’m keeping quiet about having it, as I suspect one of the Directors would like to take it off me!
- Kiwi fruit – while a pain to peel and so messy to eat, I love the texture and the taste. As they famously provide a massive hit of Vitamin C, they’re also a must for warding off colds.
- Old family photos – I grabbed two old photo albums going spare when my mother was relocating to the US. One is my father’s from childhood, and the other belonged to his parents.
- Our new home – the big windows flooding the place with light, the quiet garden, the buildings in the old town, the friendly neighbours, the fantastic array of coffee shops.
- A local garage (auto repair shop) – not only in walking distance from our new place, they’re efficient, don’t talk down to female customers, and don’t charge you for unnecessary work or items.
- The local Chinese restaurant – recommended by locals, but with lots of Chinese patrons. The food is delicious and the service brilliant.
- Truffle Guys – I recently discovered a purveyor of truffle related products for Himself. I am not generally a fan, but their oil and “dust” are very good indeed. Positively yummy in fact.
- The wholemeal seeded bread which forms part of a local UK supermarket’s “Finest” range which – unexpectedly – is very fine indeed. I like bread, but I am very fussy. Impressed π
- Ranunculus – I used to have a preference for minimal arrangements, but I seem to be moving to a more relaxed, higgledy-piggledy type of arrangement, and ranunculus (anemones too) fit the brief.
- Peonies – such a gorgeous blowsy flower – I wish both their season and the individual flowers lasted longer.
- Silver cigarette case – a gift from my godfather to my maternal grandparents. I spotted the engraving inside the lid when going through my mother’s things and grabbed it when it became clear she intended to discard it.
- A lithograph of Cheltenham College – my father’s alma mater, an old English public school set in really rather beautiful old buildings. When I found it languishing in my parents’ attic, it’s frame and glazing broken, and with a nail polish spill, I took custody of it.
- A print of an poster advertising a military history event which we regularly attended. It’s a striking piece of work, aping the Soviet military propaganda style. It’s also a memento of time spent with Himself’s best friend who died 6 years ago.
- Crunchy Peanut Butter – long a fan, Himself is now using it to make a healthy oat based snack. It is taking all my willpower to enjoy it in a sensible manner and not eat it by the teaspoon-full!
- Bluebells clustering around the base of trees and on grassy banks, heralding the start of Spring.
- Roti – I recently found a purveyor of these in my local supermarket. They are just like the ones I used to eat in India as a child. I pop them in the microwave for 40 seconds and spread with butter – yummy! Perfect with a cup of tea for breakfast.
- Woodland walks – to the rear of our new place are little paths leading through a wooded area, out past the ruins of a castle and then of the old manor house, before opening out onto polo fields.
I find it’s the small things which make life better and which give me joy – what things in your life do you love?
Β© Debs Carey, 2025
A wonderful list that gives me a better insight into who you are. I’m waiting on new glasses as I type this. I’d love to see more clearly. Describing peonies as a blowsy flower is spot on. We cannot grow them but I adore seeing them.
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At the moment, watching the trees fill with spring-green leaves and change the whole look of the town and countryside is bringing me joy! π
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This is a great list! As Ally said it opens a larger door for me to know what is important to you, to read about what you value and all of it is wonderful.
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Excellent list. It’s great to hear about your new place in a new town, which sounds delightful. I love having a lot of light and a backyard with trees and plants. I love watching dogs and horses run in fields. A cat on my lap. And I like celebrating the seasons with different mugs.
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Thanks Ally π
Since writing this list, I’m beginning to think that my reading/computer glasses may need a bit of a tweak. I’m not sure if it’s because I face directly into the afternoon sun that I’m having a problem or because my sight has actually changed. Another medical appointment to be fitted in I guess!
I’ve not tried to grow peonies. They were already present in a garden I had many years ago, but my ex dug them up. It was one of many sins he committed! π π
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That’s a beautiful image you’ve created there Jane. How lovely that your town is filled with trees. My little market town could do with more in the centre, although they are plentiful around the edges π
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Thank you Deb. I really enjoyed reading Kari’s list (and I think LA did a great one which is how I found Kari). Right at the moment, I’m feeling all the difficult emotions, so I need to keep reminding myself of the good stuff.
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Ooooh, seasonal mugs – Autumn, you’ve inspired me. Our mug collection has been significantly whittled down – mostly through breakages, and I seem to have ended up with some I don’t love. They’re doing the job, but they’re not sparking joy. I shall address this…
Lots of light and a backyard with trees and plants sounds the perfect place to rest. For me, I need someone else to be taking care of the trees and plants as I’m the death knell for them generally. I am trying hard to keep an olive tree alive as it’s a housewarming gift from my brother & sis-in-law. Keep your fingers crossed for it.
A cat on your lap is a perfect joy. I’m hoping to tempt one of the cats who now walk through our garden to become a lap cat, at least when I sit outside. I really must get on and sort out some garden furniture!
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Local pottery is always fun, too.
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A delightful list, Debs. The first three things that come to mind for me are 1) springtime, especially all of the beautiful flowers, 2) fluffy clouds in a blue sky and 3) singing along to a favorite song.
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Wait. You peel kiwi fruit? I’ve never known anyone to bother. I just cut it in half with a knife and scoop out the fruit with a spoon. You can scrape it right to the edge of the skin. Easy-peasy!
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I actually just started eating crunchy natural peanut butter by accidentβand turns out, I really like it!
Iβve also always loved walks in the woods, especially this time of year.
These posts are so much fun to read. I love getting to know you even better. Iβve been working on my own list for a while, so this feels like a sign to finally hit publish. π
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Ah, what a good idea. I haven’t explored any local potteries – I’ve driven past a few so once Himself is back at work, I shall have plenty of opportunities for Artist Dates with myself! Thanks Autumn π I am looking forward to getting back into those again.
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Christie, I must admit that singing along to anything at all is something I’ve not done for a while. My new PC has no speakers, so I will need to relocate my small Bose speakers into my office which would be no problem as we almost never use them in the living room and Himself has just bought Himself a set of excellent speakers to take into the kitchen when he cooks. Thank you for the idea π
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Yeah, I know, I am odd like that, but I’ve never been that dextrous with a spoon. No idea what it says about me…
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Yay Kari, I look forward to seeing a new post from you on this subject.
Woods are especially lovely with all that lovely dappled sunshine π Natural peanut butter is *chef’s kiss* β€
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Thank you for sharing your list. I really must get into kiwi fruit. The ones we bought in New Zealand were fresh and succulent, but I’m not so keen on the ones you get here. And as for the seeded bread in the ‘finest’ range of a local supermarket, I bought some yesterday – yum, although when I unpacked it the seeds spilled all over the kitchen floor.
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Having been reminded of the knock-on problems of high blood pressure, Himself has been taking steps to moderate our diet in an attempt to reduce cholesterol without the need for statins, all of which has led him to a regular breakfast of porridge (which he already liked) but with the addition of seeds (which he previously considered pretentious). One drawback is the one you experienced Rosemary – the spillage of seeds over the kitchen floor! My trusty long-handled dustpan and brush have been seeing more use than ever before π
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