The quick answer is probably not. If I had access to sufficient funds to live without financial worries, there’s so much I’d love to do, and many other ways I’d like to spend my time than doing a job.
First off, I’d go back to University and see how far I could go up the academic tree with Psychology, or History of Art, or Literature (and knowing me, once I’d run through those options, there’s probably plenty more just waiting to draw me in). I believe I’d be completely content to spend the rest of my days as a student if a need to pay the bills wasn’t necessary.
Then there’s travel. I’ve pretty much accepted that travel – of the long distance variety – is now behind me. Putting aside the environmental considerations, there’s also the fact that I’m old and arthritic, so remaining in a small, cramped seat for hours on end is not conducive to arriving somewhere well enough to make the most of it. But if we assume the reason I’d be able to do a job for free is that I’d enough money not to worry the cost of things, then I could travel slowly and gently and (let’s be honest) in some degree of comfort, if not bordering on luxury.
And by combining just these two from a relatively extensive list of things I’d do if I didn’t need to work, I believe I’d have a pretty full and wonderful life 🙂
The obvious question to ask is what sort of life would it be without purpose?
One way to resolve this would be to volunteer time to a cause you care about – while also hopefully being unbothered about the mundane nature of the work likely to be asked of you.
Putting volunteering aside for now, my experience is a major drawback of having to work is the fact it takes up a vast percentage of my available daily hours. Despite how much enjoyment or satisfaction I might gain from any job, leading a regimented existence, day-after-day, week-after-week, month-after-month, year-upon-year, can lead to frustrations as the list of things missed out on builds up.
But were it possible to work in a genuinely flexible manner – without having to also be “on call” – then I might be willing to change my “no” to a “yes”.
Except…
How many employers would be willing to employ people on this basis? Indeed, how many jobs could realistically be done in this manner?
Those individuals who get off the hamster wheel of employment and move to self-employment, find they need to work longer and harder. Now, because they love what they do, that’s a trade-off they’re not only willing to make, but are happy to so do. But, if this were me, it still wouldn’t address the problem of all those things I’d love to do and those other ways I’d like to spend my time.
When it comes down to it, the only “proper” job which could change my “no” to a “yes” would be writing. But if I’m not being paid to write – is it even a job?
Is there are job you’d do (or would have done should you now be retired) for free? Does the fact I answered “no” suggest to you that I’ve not found my true purpose?
© Debs Carey, 2025
The short answer No. Work to me of any type without pay is either an internship towards a larger goal or slavery.
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Yup, I’ve come round to your way of think Matt. I used to think (when I was training as a Counsellor) that was something I’d do for free because I just got such a huge sense of satisfaction from good outcomes. But… you can’t control that happening, and the less positive outcomes are so draining. From there, it was just a hope, skip and a jump to my current stance.
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I think you’ve analyzed the options and the reasons quite well, Debs. The only kind of non-paid work I can imagine is volunteering type work, which has other rewards and is part-time, or caring for grandchildren or an equivalent, which would also be part-time and have other satisfying compensation. Maybe starting to farm again could be considered unpaid work, but I’m too old to try that again!
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You touched very well on the main points that I would consider as well Debs! I am so with you on the first consideration- that of being a student for life if I had the financial ability. That would be so satisfying! To actually be employed again and have to follow the dictates of someone else without pay…there are a lot of things I love to do, a lot of experiences that were truly rewarding over my career, but I know for sure that I’m not that altruistic or interested 🙂
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I’ve already done so much writing without being paid, I am not entirely sure I want to do any more! I’ve also done thousands of hours of volunteer work, from youth sports to elementary school librarian. And I still handle administration and scholarships for a local nonprofit I might some day foster a litter of kittens, but I think that’s as far as I’m prepared to go in the future. The amount of unpaid labor this country gets from women…
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If needing money was not the issue, I suppose this would come down to how you define the word “job” and your expectations of financial gain. If a job is anything you do that takes extra effort, regardless of monetary compensation, then I’d say you are working when you go to college or do volunteer work or write anything that is published somewhere. Are you doing it for free? Yes. Does that matter? Not necessarily.
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Jane, when I was in training to become a Counsellor, there were so many groups and bodies where I wanted to volunteer. Indeed, it was my intention to build up a practice where I could balance paying hours with volunteering hours. A pipe dream sadly as, unless you are at the very top, most counsellors don’t earn enough to achieve this dream and so have to rely either on a second income within the family unit, or to work unfeasibly long hours themselves.
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Yup, that’s it exactly Deb – there’s been a realisation that I’m not as altruistic as once I was – or thought I was 🙂
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TBH Autumn, the amount of unpaid labour most countries get from women remains unmeasured – and for good reason.
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Interesting take on the question there Ally, and one I shall ponder on some more. Thank you 🙂
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I had a degree in Elementary Education. I worked for a couple of years before we moved abroad. It was hard work, but I always believed I’d become a better teacher with practice, and I looked forward to that day. When we were abroad, I couldn’t teach, so I did various kinds of volunteer work. I was president of the nursery school and on the board of the International School. I had several positions with the Asian Development Bank Women’s Club. I studied Chinese brush painting and batik. All nice ways to spend my time, and yet, not as fulfilling as I imagined being a classroom teacher would have been. The grass is always greener …
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Nicki, you’ve hit on the “purpose” aspect which could be missing were one not to work, and that’s where there’s been a shift – for me – in that it’s absence is something which would’ve bothered me a lot more when I was younger than it would now. I don’t think that is necessarily about aging, but about a change in priorities. That said, it’s hard to know for certain. If I was ever able to find myself in the fortunate position of not having to work, it would be interesting to review whether I feel the same way I do now.
PS: love the sound of Chinese brush painting and batik.
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Oh, I can think of a few jobs I’d do for free, but they all involve my mind going into the gutter, so I shall refrain from sharing.
I do agree with M’s comment though. Giving away your work for free devalues your self-worth.
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Your mind and the gutter sounds like a hilarious combo 😉
Good point. I’m now asking myself if subject divides along gender lines, although this is a minute sample. But I wonder how many men would volunteer for a cause close to their hearts, without it being a path to something (as it often is in politics)?
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It’s a NSFW combo, that’s for sure!
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😁😁😁
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I’m not quite getting the difference between volunteering and working for free?
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