Taking stock

Christie posted about taking stock in this way – not something I’d done before. Last year was a tricky year, and while this year hasn’t been without its challenges already, it has a fresh feel to it – so now felt a good time for a review of sorts. As I’m not a fan of formal reviews, I was interested in trying something new which would still allow me to notice trends and patterns.

admiring… Georgian properties – since moving into one, I’m noticing them everywhere and loving their looks and proportions.

buying… garden furniture – and while the weather immediately changed to rain, rain and more rain as soon as we did, the sun is back (along with uncomfortably high temperatures).

creaking… my knees that is. No change there πŸ™‚

driving… more than I’m used to while Himself’s eye troubles take time to heal.

enjoying… Himself’s culinary experiments while he has time at home in recovery.

feeling… discombobulated by not having a routine since moving. It’s not that I’m not open to my old routine changing, rather the complete absence of any sort of order or pattern is leaving me all at sixes and sevens.

gasping… at the price of a fabulous device which dries food waste so you can either store it without nasty niffs, or spread it in your flower beds.

hearing… not very well. Hay fever has gone to my ears this season, so I wake up each morning deaf in one ear. Fortunately, it does clear as the day goes on.

ignoring… my to-do list because I was feeling huge levels of overwhelm. Unfortunately, I’m now anxious about what remains undone. Sigh.

judging… it seems to be an unfortunate by-product of people watching. I keep telling myself that everyone does it, but I don’t think I’m convincing anyone, let alone myself.

kipping… a lot in my chair of an evening.

looking… for a new book club.

making… home-made lime cordial.

noticing… bird song when sat outside in our garden. While we occasionally have the buzz of light planes and the whomp whomp of RAF helicopters overhead, this is the first time we’ve not lived either near a major London airport, nor a major highway, so we can really hear them.

organizing… or rather acknowledging I need to get a system in place so I can get back on track with my to do list after completely running out of steam – emotionally more than physically.

phoning… my old next-door neighbour for a chat instead of just popping across the hallway is something I’ve yet to get used to.

questioning… what next after my day job finishes at the end of this year.

relieved… that we’re now living somewhere the landlord owns properties as a (very) long-term investment, allowing us to have the longer-term security we need.

searching… for a nice capricious chest of drawers to go in our bedroom, because the cupboard space is significantly down on what we’re used to. A search made trickier as we’d like a piece of furniture which fits the property’s style, while not costing a fortune.

talking… to my coach again is proving helpful. I know the answers, and I have the tools, but accountability has been missing.

undertaking… to set aside time in my diary to get shit done.

vision-boarding… is long overdue, and I’ve got the itch.

working… out how to hang up our pictures without taking a hammer drill to these incredibly hard Georgian walls.

xploring… the history of not only our own town, but those in the surrounding area.

yawning… because I’m still waking up early, even though it’s not necessary to do so while Himself isn’t working. And because he’s not working, we’re also staying up later. The problem is changing my sleep patterns has always been akin to turning the QE2, so the question is whether my body clock will change before Himself recovers.

zooming… still, if only for networking and coaching (both based in a different part of the country to where I live). Perhaps it’s time to find somewhere more local.

Do you take stock of your life – occasionally, regularly, or never? Are you team formal or alternative in the method you use?

Β© Debs Carey, 2025

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  1. I like your approach to taking stock. A to Z is fun. I don’t formally take stock of my life nor do I create bucket lists. I occasionally reflect on how I’ve changed, how the world has changed and my place in it, but not with any goal in mind. I live in the now, I guess.

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  2. Interesting formula Debs. I like the one word assessment concept. I don’t think that I’ve ever formally sat down to take a step by step approach to checking in with myself however. I know when things seem “off” and focus on that at the time. With all this upcoming move stuff it might not be a bad idea to answer my own alphabet evaluation. I’m sure there are things that I’m missing or angst-y things that need attending πŸ™‚

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  3. Ally, I think when there’s a high level of contentment or life is largely as we’d hope it would be, I don’t see any reason to carry out a review. It makes sense to do it when things are in flux, or when unsure of what direction to take – and I guess that’s where I am atm.

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  4. Deb, when I looked at it initially, I couldn’t see how it would work. But I decided to give it a proper try, and it surprised me to find there were patterns from which I could learn. With big stuff being out of my control and involving my waiting for future stuff to become clear, it’s thrown me off balance. This helped me to see there were things I could bring back within my control, and things I could move forward on, even while waiting for the future stuff to resolve. If you decide to do it for yourself, I hope it proves helpful to you too.

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  5. What a fun and meaningful exercise! And you did the A-Z approach. Impressive. I’m inspired to do a word like Italy or Travel and will include a link to this post of yours. Thanks for the inspiration!

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  6. Thanks for the shout-out Debs. I enjoyed very much your A-Z taking stock. I hope you are continuing to settle in and get organized!

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  7. Good luck finding a book club! I wanted to find one that was local (I hate driving at night in traffic) and fairly casual (in my last one, the host was expected to serve a whole dinner to attending members). Finally I posted a note on our local area Facebook page. Lots of people came to the first “lets talk about it” meeting and most have continued on. I LOVE my book club!

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  8. Re. “Admiring” I’ve always thought it’s amazing that when you start focusing on something, you begin seeing it everywhere.

    They say writers are always big people-watchers. I think I’m rather lacking in that area. Or maybe I do it unconsciously.

    I admire your ability to come up with an A to Z list.

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  9. Janis, thanks for the good luck wishes. I would really prefer an existing one which I could slot in to as I’m not in the right headspace currently to consider starting a new one. But once I feel more on top of things and have settled into a routine, if there’s still nothing suitable around, I’ll probably give it a go. I miss being in a book club. My old one sort of drifted apart.

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  10. Thanks Nicki, I find an A-Z list inspiring rather than daunting, hence why I go for that option so often.

    The people watching is a most useful habit for a writer, but I did it (and brought my judgemental self to it) long before I wrote anything! Maybe I was simply building up a solid database of ideas all along! πŸ˜‰

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  11. This is such a fun writing ideaβ€”I might have to try it soon! So many good things on your list to help me get to know you even better, which I love. Also, I’d love to know what a lime cordial is!

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  12. Aw thanks Kari πŸ™‚ I hope you do give it a try – there’s so many ways to do it. Christie choose to spell out Spring, and I’ve seen others selecting words that have a resonance to themselves or aspects of their lives.

    Lime cordial is lime juice, sugar and water. I used to drink Rose’s lime juice cordial when I was a child as I like the taste of sharp, tart things. In the UK, people in a pub who are not drinking alcohol often have a pint of lime soda, which is made with lime cordial. Himself has also tried orange cordial, and of course Elderflower cordial is very popular. We’ll probably try some other flavours in due course. I’d love to find somewhere to forage blackberries when they’re in season, so we can try making a blackberry cordial.

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  13. Another thing we share! ❀ I inherited my tart tongue (tart in more ways than one! πŸ˜‰ ) from my Dad and his side of the family, while my mother and her side of the family all have/had a hugely sweet tooth. Only time sweet things have called to me is when I was pregnant, and when I am feeling a certain type of stress.

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  14. It’s more that I crave them, then end up over-eating and, as a result, feel horribly sick. I rarely indulge in sweet things – they’ve never been my thing. That said, Himself is partial to a biscuit with a cup of tea and with him being at home while he recovers, too many cups of tea (with accompanying biscuit) are showing up on the scales. He needs to get back to work for so many reasons!

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