I’m rooting for the opposition

No, I’m not talking about anything serious like the shooting war going on in the Middle East… I’m talking rugby.

Let me be upfront by disclosing that, much to the disgust of most of the fans I know, I am a club team first, national team second person. I absolutely love to see my club players getting picked for the national team (am less thrilled when they send them back broken), but my heart will always lie with the lads in the multi-coloured quarters and not the red rose of England.

Nevertheless, I am a supporter of our national rugby team and, in the past, have paid significant sums to watch them live. I do all the things a supporter is meant to do – I’m loud and proud in my support at the ground and I not inclined to trash talk any of the players/management. But that doesn’t mean I’m blind to faults and weaknesses and, in the privacy of my own home, I indulge in some critical talking – at both club and national level.

One huge point of difference is that no matter how badly my club team is performing… I would never wish for the opposition to beat them. But, tomorrow, I am hoping to see the opposition – Italy – beat England for the first time ever in their playing history.

There are many reasons for this, but first a bit of background…

  • Italy have taken a massive amount of stick over the years about being not good enough to remain in the tournament.
  • Despite the multiple years of losses, the Italian team always turned up, worked hard, played their best, and not given up until the final whistle is blown.
  • The Italian players have always been demonstrably proud to represent their country.
  • Whether win or lose, the Italian side have always behaved with grace.
  • Italy are currently playing cracking rugby.
  • The English are not…

    Now on to the real reasons…
  • The English have approached the current tournament with a degree of arrogance and the presumption they would run out winners of the whole thing (they will not, they’ve already been beaten twice).
  • Despite having had a winning run of 12 games until the 2 losses in this tournament, the England team has looked average. But, because they were winning, no-one was doing anything to make improvements.
  • The English coaching team insist on playing players out of position, and their game plan is as dull as ditchwater. Worse, they appear to only have the one plan, and when it doesn’t work, the lack of a back-up or alternative plan is excruciating to witness.
  • England need to be beaten in order to get a good shake up before the really big tournament in 2 years time, and Italy beating them for the first time (let alone it being the third defeat on the trot) should do it. In truth, next week they’re likely to be beaten again when they play France, so almost a reverse whitewash.
  • This is the second coaching call England rugby’s governing body have got badly wrong on the trot, so it’ll cost them loads of money to extricate themselves (again). But, New Zealand rugby recently fired their coach because their team wasn’t playing to the level which the quality of players they have at their disposal indicates they should, which is the identical situation to the English team. So if they’re serious about success, they really need to pony up.

Now there are a lot of England rugby fans who fear the loss will happen, and almost as many who are forecasting it will happen – but I’m not sure how many will actively be hoping for it to happen as I am. I am confident I won’t be alone, but I wonder how many would admit to it?

Am I a disgrace and should I be sent to the naughty corner? Or have I presented a reasonable defense for my decision? (The scenarios I’ve presented above are in no way limited to the game of rugby, but to any type of team sports).

ยฉ Debs Carey, 2026


PostScript: I wrote this on Friday. On Saturday the Italian rugby team beat the English rugby team. There remains one more round of games in this tournament. At the present time, no heads have rolled

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  1. Oh Debs, I do not think you a disgrace at all.
    I am not a sports person for many reasons. American sports have all sorts of long time associations with patriarchy, misogyny, inequality, general unfairness, great amounts of boasting and even that tie to warfare in the verbage used before, during and after events. Also American sports are so money driven, and that is even moving down into our school level sports programs. I know there are positives of encouraging children to join sports, even my own kids participated, but it seems there’s a point where things flip for so many. I choose to mostly ignore the craziness altogether.

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  2. Deb, this is the only team sport I’ve caught the bug for. Himself is not a team sport kinda guy – he used to hike, climb, swim, kayak – thank goodness we never met when he was still young & fit, he’d have been the death of me!

    I know what you mean about the issues with (particularly) team sports. There has been significant progress on that front made in the UK, not least because the women’s teams (in football and rugby) have been more successful at world level than the men’s. But it has been good to see, although I don’t doubt that more progress can always be made.

    Oh & thank you for saying I can get off the naughty step! ๐Ÿ˜€

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  3. I don’t pay attention to sports very often. But this year the Seattle Seahawks made it to the Superbowl. (That’s American football.) So this year I watched the whole thing and cheered for Seattle, my hometown team. Even better, they won.

    I had hoped Canada would beat the US during the Olympics, but both the US men’s and women’s teams won. The Canadians are such lovely neighbors, and Trump has been treating them so badly. I don’t feel the least bit guilty for siding with them.

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  4. I didn’t watch any of the Winter Olympics but I was seriously hopeful that the Canadians would come through the winners in the ice hockey (and as you say, both men’s and women’s teams). It was a shame it wasn’t to be, especially as it opened the door to the ridiculous bit of posturing by the current administration. And I suspect you weren’t alone in being an American siding with the Canadian teams currently.

    Congrats to your hometown team winning the Superbowl – I hope you enjoy the town’s celebrations.

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  5. Hey, I voted against America in many events during the Winter Olympics this year. I have no appetite for arrogance, which unfortunately seems to be a hallmark of American athletes (though it sounds like England has its share too). Viva la Italy!

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  6. Thanks for the solidarity Mark ๐Ÿ™‚ It was especially annoying to me as rugby has a culture of behaving with good grace. The same weekend the Italians beat England, Scotland beat France, which was unexpected – real giant slaying stuff. After the game, one of the French fans started playing the Scottish anthem on his trumpet while his friend conducted the Scottish fans in singing it out loud. That’s how proper rugby fans behave, but it seems the England team (and many of the media & supporters) have forgotten this important aspect.

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  7. Debs, I wholeheartedly agree with you re the rugby. It seems that some players who have fine rugby brains have been captured by a timorous game plan with no freedom to think positively and pounce on unexpected opportunities. England rugby (union to be clear) is at its nadir, and if they manage to step up and take the fight to France that will only conceal the remaking that has to be done.

    I fear that the current England cricket team – especially the Test team – is approaching the same loss of identity.

    Alan

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  8. Alan, your comment that if England step up and take the fight to France will only conceal the remaking that has to be done was very much my fear. And, as they did, bar a couple of incidents when they threw the game away, makes me believe the promised review will not be as questioning as it needs to be. While it will be a different to the “we won 12 games on the trot we’re a good team” viewpoint, there’s an unwillingness to truly look inwards and find the answers for the change that needs to happen. While Fabien Galthie can be a tad on the impulsive side, I almost wish for his gallic brutality. I fear for the outcome of the next game against SA… especially if SA don’t bother with a full test side.

    I wasn’t aware that the cricket team were behaving likewise – what a dispiriting place it is to be an England sports fan at present.

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  9. Since I literally have no dog in the hunt (as proof by my using that specific expression!), I choose to believe that you are completely within your rights in siding with the Italian team over your own English one. Good sportsmanship should be rewarded. Now, just an FYI, but baseball season starts in 10 days! ๐Ÿ˜‰

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  10. Marty, love your turn of phrase there ๐Ÿ˜‰

    I grew up with my father & uncle playing both cricket and softball (I also played the latter), so baseball has always been on my radar (as has basketball as I played that as a child also). Indeed, I was a real fish out of water when attending my English boarding school as I had to convert to rounders and netball, most unwillingly I will admit.

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  11. And thank goodness too! Some Australian suggested that the RFU should appoint John Mitchell to the men’s team. Fortunately the commentary pointed out that the ladies team was the one doing the winning, so best treated with appropriate respect and left alone.

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