- Can you remember what your parents used to read you before bedtime?
I’m not sure they did. We lived overseas and had an ayah (Indian nanny), and all our routines (including bedtime) were entirely run by her. It’s unlikely she’d have read to us, as I’m not sure how well she read English with it not being her first language. Thinking about it, this probably explains why I don’t know a lot of early years books. But we regularly saw my parents with a book in their hands, so the transition to reading ourselves felt natural. When we got access to TV the year I turned 11, my mother and one sister started to taper off their reading, but my father and the remaining three children have continued to be avid readers. - How do you pick the next book you want to read?
I used to browse in bookshops, picking up a book and reading the first few pages (if it grabbed me, I bought it), otherwise it was by recommendation, either personal or via newpapers or magazine articles. Once I began reading fiction on a Kindle, the impact of bookshop browsing vastly reduced. That, combined with my increasing age and a growing lack of willingness to plough through books which aren’t enjoyable, means I now chose new books written by tried & trusted authors, or via recommendations from a few trusted people whose taste aligns with mine. There was a time I was heavily influenced by membership of a book club, and because that opened my eyes to new authors, I will be looking for a new one this year. - Would you rather read a book with an unclear ending that makes you wonder what the author meant, or one with a heartbreaking ending?
The unclear ending was my immediate reaction. I don’t believe I’m seeking to avoid a heartbreaking ending in my choice, although clearly I could be too close to be an entirely dispassionate observer. I suspect my reasoning is that while open or unclear endings can be frustrating to a reader, to a writer it can be a really interesting experience to play out the scenario and see where you’d take the outcome. - Would you rather read the same genre forever, or only be allowed to read one book from every genre?
If forced, I would read the same genre forever – what that genre would be, I’m not entirely sure. Probably literary fiction, although there’s no doubting I’d miss my comfort reads when times are difficult, as that’s where I find solace. But I’ll be honest, I’m not convinced there are enough genres (or even sub-genres) to cover my annual reading numbers, let alone the number of books I’ll read in my lifetime – and I’m confident this would be true of all avid readers. - Did you ever read in a completely inappropriate location or situation?
No. But my list of inappropriate locations or situations would be small and probably limited only to a religious service or a business meeting. - How late into a book do you realize it will be one that you will recommend others to read as well?
I’d not recommend a book until I’ve finished it. It’s possible I’d be complimentary if asked, perhaps even suggest a book I’m reading might be to a certain individual’s taste – but a full-blown recommendation wouldn’t happen till I’ve read the entire book. But I’m careful with recommendations anyway, because my loving a book doesn’t means everyone will feel the same way… as I know from experience. When making a recommendation, I try to match what I know of a person’s taste with any recommendation and, as I read a wide range of genres, I’m generally able to make a decent suggestion. Not always though… for someone whose preference is horror or romance, I’ve limited offerings. - Do you enjoy audiobooks?
I have listened to a few audiobooks, but I’ve a preference for reading and, fortunately my life isn’t such that I have to multi-task this way in order to consume books. I’ve started a couple, only to be put off by the reader’s voice and/or their mispronunciation of words. I also know that I get irritated by certain quirks in writing style when I hear them read aloud, despite being able to get past them when reading – I’ve no idea why this is. There are exceptions to this preference – Stephen Fry and the Harry Potter series being one notable example. - Who’s your favourite author?
Honestly, I couldn’t pick just one. It was hard enough to nominate one favourite book (when pressed, I eventually nominated Midnights Children by Salman Rushdie). Rushdie is definitely a favourite author of mine… and yet I’ve DNF’d at least one of his books. Among my favourites are those from every Continent except Antarctic, and while I’d have said my preferred genres are literary & contemporary fiction, my Goodreads report told me I’ve read more mysteries, thrillers and historical fiction last year, so what do I know! I started to write a list but, honestly, it got way too long. I’d always be happy to share it with the genuinely interested, but don’t believe anyone wants to read a massive list of names in a blog post.
Do you have any particular reading patterns – seasons, time of day, number of minutes/pages etc?
Also, what do you think of the Icelandic tradition of Christmas Book Flood, where a surge of new books is published before Christmas, gifted on Christmas Eve, and then read immediately (the key bit being you’re not judged for being unsociable)?
© Debs Carey, 2026
Here are a few of my favorite books:
The Grapes Of Wrath — John Steinbeck.
The Sea Around Us — Rachel Carson.
Sophie’s Choice — William Styron.
A Journal Of The Plague Year — Daniel Defoe.
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Wow Debs, you put a lot of thought into those answers!
1.I don’t have a true memory of being read to as a child but I do have a distinct memory of one book that I somehow memorized at a very young age that I would “read” to myself, looking at the pictures, etc. so someone must have read it enough to me?
2.I put lots of books on a TBR list and most come from the library so whatever comes next is sort of dictated by what’s available at the time.
3.Neither 🙂 but I’m not a fan of ambiguous endings.
4.Neither 🙂 I want to read what I want to read and that varies
5.Nope
6.Probably by the half way point, although I realize something could come up later. I usually only recommend to family (daughters) anyway. I know what they like well enough.
7.Nope. I can’t concentrate on audio books
8.Can’t/won’t pick a favorite. I have authors I read more often in different genres, both fiction and non-fiction but if I pick one I’m pretty sure they would be replaced. Long ago I may have chosen some famous authors of classics but now it’s more about content than reading a specific author and everything they produce.
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Good questions! I was read to as a child–“Just So Stories,” are the ones I remember. Didn’t find out how problematic Kipling was until much later. I didn’t really start loving books until I was older. And then I devoured them. If I could only read one genre, it would be a mash up of Fantasy-SciFi, but I enjoy mysteries also. I don’t really care for audio books; I read fast and audio books feel slow!
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These are great questions. I may steal. Love your answers!!
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Thank you, as I’ve only read one of those (the last one) and have avoided Sophie’s Choice as the film rendered me completely mute (I’d given birth only 3 months before). So 2 books to add to my TBR – much appreciated 🙂
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Ooh thanks Deb, what a lovely long reply. I’m glad I’m not alone in having no true memory of being read to as a child, but I am fascinated by the book you memorised so that you could read it to yourself. As you say, it must’ve been read to you lots of times, but I love that you remember the aspect of doing it yourself. I am working my way towards joining my local library (just need to gather together the relevant bits of ID). I have spoiled myself by just buying books on Kindle whenever I want to, but there is no doubting I could save a whole heap if I got more disciplined. That’s my target for this year – to give it a go. I may still make a few special cases, but I really want to give it a try to see how it works. My “favourite” author tends to rotate as well, and there’s no way I could narrow it down to one for any length of time.
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Autumn, I read the “Just So Stories” to my daughter and she loved them. I was still giving Kipling a pass at the time…
Pre-teen and teenage me absolutely devoured books too. They were the perfect place to lose myself when I was miserable in boarding school. The only time I’ve found audio books work for me is when I’m ill or injured, so I just activate my Audible subscription when needed.
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Steal away LA! I look forward to reading your answers too 🙂
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I would never read if I didn’t belong to a library. I do ebooks unless I buy something used that I can’t get at the library and really, really want to read.
During my “watch every penny” time of life after divorce I just couldn’t buy books, even used often stretched things really thin. In that time I realized that every book (especially new releases) that I’ve purchased I never had any intent to read again. Why was I spending $25 or more to shove the book on my shelf and then make my kids deal with them when I am gone. Now if I do buy it’s used and if the family isn’t interested I will donate them to various places. I hope you find you enjoy borrowing from the library and using the other services they offer as well.
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Fun questions!
I only choose books that are rated 3.7 stars or higher on Goodreads, so I’m pretty selective. I periodically Google “best books of the year” for inspiration, combing through various lists to see if there are certain books that keep popping up. Occasionally, I’ll receive a recommendation from someone…though like you say, those are hit-and-miss.
My reading patterns do vary based on season. I read a lot more during the winter, simply because I walk on the treadmill for an hour before work most mornings, and I pass the time by reading. When it’s warm I walk outside, and obviously, I’m not carrying a book around then.
On a related note, I can’t get into audiobooks. Gotta be the printed word for me.
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I read mostly for escapism, so if it skirts the truth and intrigues me, I’m in. I don’t trust ratings on Goodreads as I like to find my own way. I like mysteries, especially with Jack Reacher types and I follow different paths, mostly it is hit or miss but then again I am Aquarius and we rarely follow crowds. That is a good question but my husband and I also love bookstores. Especially mom and pop and not chains like Barnes and Noble.
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I also like authors who write about what they know. For example: I love attorney and law books involving solving mysteries and if they write about small town businesses, do they have any knowledge…Right now, I am on a kick about novels set in the outback and Australia. I don’t like political novels so much but I love when books mimic times such as economic downturns or upturns, if that makes sense.
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When I was very young, my dad told me bedtime stories almost every night. He made them up as he told them. They were always exciting–giants, magic carpets, etc. Mom must have read to me too because I knew all the nursery rhymes.
I, too, remember poking around in bookstores. Now I use a Kindle. I read books by favorite authors, and I keep list in “Nicki’s wish list” that includes recommended books.
I haven’t listened to many audio books. I remember two that I loved. You have to have a good reader. The reader in another book seemed have a different interpretation of a major character than I did. It really annoyed me.
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What fun questions!
I had three older sisters who bought books, and I ended up reading their books. The two oldest were responsible for putting me to bed, so I guess they must have read to me. I think the Dr. Seuss books were always around.
I used to read reviews in the Book Section of the Washington Post (which tragically closed that section down recently). That was always my main source for new books. Now I keep my eye on the New York Times, Goodreads update emails, and podcast interviews (especially “Fresh Air”).
Your “inappropriate” question makes me laugh. A former co-worker proudly wrote an erotic short story and posted it to a site for that genre, and promptly shared it with a bunch of us. That was weird!
I never recommend books to people. I’m not sure why.
My favorite author is John P. Marquand. He lampooned the aristocracy and upper classes.
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Deb, I’m fortunate in having been able to afford my book acquisition habit (even if they have been the electronic version when fiction). But… I cannot guarantee that’ll always be the case, and it’s unavoidably obvious that it’s a big part of my “unnecessary” spending. I’ve put it off for a number of reasons: firstly for that whole “I’m worth it” thing, and secondly because I’m immensely more comfortable holding a kindle than a large and/or heavy hardback with my constantly verging on carpal tunnel syndrome wrists. But… I feel if I don’t try it to see how it works, I will regret it.
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Mark, I wish I could say I’ve found a way of using ratings to guarantee that I won’t be disappointed, but I’ve yet to succeed there. I’ve been a tad more flexible in my reading at the start of this year, and it was rather too much miss than hit, until I reverted to my tried & trusted formula.
A good friend of mine consumes almost all his books via audio methods as it allows him to carry out his household duties while he listens. I’m in the enviable position of reading being my sole focus when I do it, so until the time that changes, I don’t see myself moving to audio.
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I find I can’t do without my comfort reads – which is very similar to your escapism category. The problem with Goodreads ratings is that unless you know the taste of the individual concerned, the rating isn’t that useful or reliable.
I like an old style bookstore and could easily spend an absolute fortune in them, so avoid them except for occasional indulgences.
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There’s no doubting the ring of authenticity is attractive when reading. I get thrown right out of the story if I hit an inaccuracy.
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Nicki, how wonderful to not only have your father read to your so much but also to have stories made up especially for you.
My selection process sounds very similar to your own.
A good reader is so key with audio books and, of course, we all have different ideas of what that is! A different interpretation of a major character? No wonder you were annoyed.
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Marty, I’m jumping straight to your “inappropriate” colleague’s actions – yikes! That is extremely weird. How on earth did you cope when you next saw them?
I often enthuse about books I’ve read, but rarely offer a recommendation unless I’m either confident or am asked directly. When you know your own taste isn’t aligned with many others, that’s often the safest way.
I’ve not heard of John P Marquand – thank you, a new author to check out :_)
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I think it’s important that people READ, no matter how they choose to do it! I love the physical feel and buying of books but it is an expense that I needed to give up. I’ve found borrowing ebooks from the library to be so easy and quick plus have the advantage if I do want a real book I can just pop in and get one. I do feel good about buying used and then donating those. I would find it harder to do that if I was paying full price if I’m honest.
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It was an eyebrow raiser for sure. I just remember coming in the next day and greeted her with a rousing, “And how’s our budding Erica Jong doing today?!” It got some laughs, and I choose to believe broke some tension. I may be deluding myself, though. She ended up being a manager. Typical, huh?
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My bookshelves are filled with what I call professional books – psychology and related subjects. Most of them were purchased second-hand as my daughter turned me on to that some years before. One of my most cherished possessions is a book signed by Carl Rogers which I bought for almost nothing second-hand, only to discover his signature.
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Nice way to break the ice! To be honest, something had to be said or the atmosphere could’ve been really difficult.
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I can do podcasts but not audio books. Weird, since they really aren’t all that different.
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That is why I choose locations such as Florida and the Catskills where I have lived before. For my first novel, “The Bayou Heist” I write about Orlando but many of the things I allude to took place closer to home in the Tampa Bay area. Owning a cupcakerie, a friend who married a Middle Easterner only to discover several ID’s, and passports. Innocent, hmm…most of it is fiction but reality is often stranger than fiction.
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Hmm, that is weird Mark. I rarely listen to podcasts, but when I do so, I find I have to give them my full attention. I couldn’t do what some friends do and do other stuff (chores, running) at the same time.
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Good call. I find it shows when an author really knows an area, rather than has just researched it.
Himself doesn’t read fiction and is always telling me that’s because it often is stranger.
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Who is Himself?
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Himself is my other half. Himself is a relatively common way to refer to that person here in the UK (and in Ireland).
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